Here somthing you can say:
Hi there! I'm glad you wanted me to call. My name is [first name]. You are probably most curious just to hear the sound of my voice, and to see how it makes you feel--sort of a 'does this guy sound cool?' situation. So, well, here I am; I hope you like the sound of me, and that you feel good hearing my voice. I'd be very interested in hearing yours!"
Note: never ever talk about your self for more then "2" minutes. Remember, at the beginning, most women are not interested in you--they are interested in how you make them feel. If your voice sounds like a rusty saw, upset, angry, sad, or is unpleasant to listen to, then you have some work to do. Do some deep breathing before calling, and try warming up your voice by taking a deep breath, and making a low "ahhhh" sound as you exhale (do this BEFORE calling her, not WHILE calling her. Most women do not consider deep breathing and moans to be very seductive on the first phone call. Go figure.).
At the end of your message, remember to make an invitation to her: "If this sounds interesting to you, please contact me," and tell her how. Leave both your phone number and your email address, so she can contact you even if she's afraid to call.
Best wish to all faraxs out there...
