girls opinion

sabad · Post by **sabad** » Mon Feb 06, 2006 7:20 pm

would you tell a man you like him?

we somali girls (most of us) still have the pride and would not tell a guy you fancy him. i mean, for me i wouldn't know were to begin.

this guy has it all, the looks, the personality and he's romantic. those three don't really come in a package.

i know what some of you thinkin, wait for him to ask and if he doesn't then forget about him, but i see him once in a while he is a friend of a friend you see, and i can't tell that friend because i might aswell tell him myself.

i fancy the hell out of this guy, how shall i approach him?

Xplosive · Post by **Xplosive** » Mon Feb 06, 2006 7:23 pm

I aint no girl, but heres my two thousand shillings:

Is he Somali? And if so, qolomuu yahay?

sabad · Post by **sabad** » Mon Feb 06, 2006 7:26 pm

ofcourse he is somali

his tribe don't really matter

what matters is he is muslim and somali.

Xplosive · Post by **Xplosive** » Mon Feb 06, 2006 7:27 pm

I'm just playing with you Laughing

I'll step aside and let your fellow sisters give you an answer Very Happy

Intruder · Post by **Intruder** » Mon Feb 06, 2006 7:37 pm

[quote="Xplosive"]I aint no girl, but ....
[/quote]

How appropriate of you to respond Warsan Girlie boy? Laughing

SoMaLiSiZz · Post by **SoMaLiSiZz** » Mon Feb 06, 2006 7:37 pm

sabad , there is Marriage in Islam and then there is lowering the gaze and Fasting if you find it hard to be single and the hormone are kicking in.. This is Islam... Anything out side that please leave it and do not earn the Anger of Allah as his punishment is great... whome ever dose that will get his punishment in this life, grave and the Yom Al Akhirah..

do not let the shytan play with you brothers and sisters LOWER YOUR GAZES !!!

Xplosive · Post by **Xplosive** » Mon Feb 06, 2006 7:37 pm

[quote="Intruder"][quote="Xplosive"]I aint no girl, but heres my two thousand shillings:

Is he Somali? And if so, qolomuu yahay?[/quote]

How appropriate of you to respond Warsan Girlie boy? Laughing

[/quote]

What are YOU doing here, gaytruder? Laughing

sabad · Post by **sabad** » Mon Feb 06, 2006 7:52 pm

somalisizz..

am not finding it hard to be single walal. my intentions are not for just a short romance but infact look at him in a marriage material.

thanks, i agree with what you say as, i fear ALLAH and would not lower myself like that. i think, it is not sinful to have feelings as long as you can control yourself.

Suhaylah · Post by **Suhaylah** » Mon Feb 06, 2006 8:08 pm

Well where do I start *thinks* well I don't have much to say but and there is always a but Confused

..You fancy him, eh?... Idea

Marry him immediately!!!!!!!

SoMaLiSiZz · Post by **SoMaLiSiZz** » Mon Feb 06, 2006 8:12 pm

that is a great Idea sister in islam but I would say to the sister Pray salatul Istikhra at first to know if this man is good for you or not si aad is gursatiin inshaAllah ===========>

Suhaylah · Post by **Suhaylah** » Mon Feb 06, 2006 8:20 pm

[quote="SoMaLiSiZz"]that is a great Idea sister in islam but I would say to the sister Pray salatul Istikhra at first to know if this man is good for you or not si aad is gursatiin inshaAllah ===========>[/quote]

Masha Allah, that's good advice..

SomaliLight · Post by **SomaliLight** » Mon Feb 06, 2006 8:24 pm

[quote]Well where do I start *thinks* well I don't have much to say but and there is always a but ..You fancy him, eh?... Marry him immediately!!!!!!![/quote]

Marry him kulah Rolling Eyes

, for all you know he could turn out to be some freak...but honestly if he is your friend, figure it out if anything is possible btw you guyz. If thats cool, than go for it..why not! ...Sabad ...if you see a good brother don't let him go( cause they are rare) Wink

Suhaylah · Post by **Suhaylah** » Mon Feb 06, 2006 8:32 pm

SomaliLight

I'm just stating my opinion. ... Don't shoot the messenger... Wink

Post by **Nabeela** » Mon Feb 06, 2006 8:34 pm

He sounds like a catcher Cool

Tell him that youÃ¢Â€Â™re interested and see what his response is. It sounds like you are hooked Smile

and If that is the case, you are pretty much giving up all your power to this guy who can almost, destroy you by rejecting you. I hope it works out for you though! Smile

sabad · Post by **sabad** » Mon Feb 06, 2006 8:34 pm

thanks somalisizz, that is a really good advice..

somalilight, as LH said aka ayan hirsi's lil sister...no advice from a kafir, disrespecting our beloved Mohammed is no good to me, so you can take it else where.