Would you send you CHILD to SOMALIA
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- Homer Simpso
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Would you send you CHILD to SOMALIA
astonishingly I came across alotta somali families that have decided to sent their kids back to somali, to learn the Quran or the culture.. I find it a tough decision because how can I send my kid back to place where I have runaway from?... aint that strenge.. why do some of the somali people do so?/// can someone explain that to me... would you send your kid back to somalia? I dont have kids rightnow but I wouldnt.. what about you
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No, it's not strange to go back or send your kid to a place you're a runaway. Now, let's not kid ourselves; we are mostly economic runaways, meaning we aren't primarily runaways from Somalia because of safety issues. Let's be frank; there are many safe havens in Somalia where you can survive. Are you telling me you haven't at least one relative who manages to live in Somalia without much problems? Provided you take some sensible measures, you can manage to live/survive in Somalia. And why not? At least 2/3 of Somalis live in Somalia.
I understand why some parents send their kids back to Somalia, to learn the Qur'an, deen, culture, etc. What those parents are doing is sensible and common sense. It's more than that; it's survival. When you encounter so many young Somalis who have lost their astrolabe, you will understand the concerns of their parents and genuine efforts to help.
Personally, I would send my kid (don't have yet) to Somalia. Yup.
I understand why some parents send their kids back to Somalia, to learn the Qur'an, deen, culture, etc. What those parents are doing is sensible and common sense. It's more than that; it's survival. When you encounter so many young Somalis who have lost their astrolabe, you will understand the concerns of their parents and genuine efforts to help.
Personally, I would send my kid (don't have yet) to Somalia. Yup.
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first of all Somalia isn't as bad as you're making it sound. obviously the fighting and all the chaos is mostly in the south and Mogadhishu area, if you go up north it's perfectly normal. i would rather send my kid to live with a relative in that area than have him/her watch BET and start saying "lean wit " and "ey shawty". it's focked up how 9 and 10 year old somali kids are picking up these things, gabar yariis ah oo probably 8 years old ah singing "check on it" and stuff ka waran, where are the focking parents and the adults? specially kids that are raised by a single parent, it's scary to witness this. until the kid is old enough to have his somali daqan straightened out keep them in somalia.
When I went back last summer I met this dude who used to be trouble maker. This guy used to be a fockin criminal and did all types of shit. But when a saw him in Somalia he had changed. Dude is married now and has become very religious. So yeah, I would send my kids back if I felt that they were about to lose their culture. Eventough I may move there myself in the future if things become more stable.
Assalamu calaykum,
What is wrong with somalia? Don't be fooled by the skylines, the moral decay. East and west home is the best. What are you going to do when they come for you?
The fact is that many parents are already sendig their children , have moved back to somalia or are in the process.
Ma dhalaalka ayaad ka heshay?
What is wrong with somalia? Don't be fooled by the skylines, the moral decay. East and west home is the best. What are you going to do when they come for you?
The fact is that many parents are already sendig their children , have moved back to somalia or are in the process.
Ma dhalaalka ayaad ka heshay?
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That is exactly what my cousin’s husband wants to do to their four year old son. I was shocked when I heard they were even considering it. He says he wants his kid to learn the language and deen first before they are exposed to this system, but I think they are just doing this to get the grandmother to look after him. I just can’t believe young educated people like them can be so naive. It’s OK to send problem teenagers there if they are at risk but to send your children there because you want them to grow up as Somali is just wrong. Some of my cousins, nephews and nieces don’t know af somaali but so what as long as they are decent Muslims. 
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The problem with some parents is they wish to solve a problem yet they are the once that are leaving behind the kids in Somalia they are escaping the problem let someone else take care of my child.. This is totally wrong of course as Allah will ask you of the well being of your child on the yom Al akhira. The best solution is that parents and children migrate together but many parents don’t and they are selfish and ignorant they wish to live in the west among kaafirs and rather abandon their children in Somalia to Allah knows what...
And many parents in the west are messed up as well they don’t know how deep on dirt they kids are and Allah will keep them accounted as well...
Parents are not teaching their children Quran and Sunnah and all of a sudden when the girl/Boy is all grown up they wonder where did they go wrong why is their children making zina drinking alcohol living with another human Haram ect ect ect.. 18 years they don’t teach them Quran and Sunnah and now they regret it lets say 18 years too late you can straighten the tree when its very little but when it grows and grows no one can straighten it but Allah.
If you ask me the parents are the ones that needs to learn Quran and Sunnah before getting married and abusing their children and messing them up for life!
But if they already have children get out of the west along with ya kids

And many parents in the west are messed up as well they don’t know how deep on dirt they kids are and Allah will keep them accounted as well...
Parents are not teaching their children Quran and Sunnah and all of a sudden when the girl/Boy is all grown up they wonder where did they go wrong why is their children making zina drinking alcohol living with another human Haram ect ect ect.. 18 years they don’t teach them Quran and Sunnah and now they regret it lets say 18 years too late you can straighten the tree when its very little but when it grows and grows no one can straighten it but Allah.
If you ask me the parents are the ones that needs to learn Quran and Sunnah before getting married and abusing their children and messing them up for life!
But if they already have children get out of the west along with ya kids
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I think it should be started from the wife, when she goes back then you can send the whole family one by one. (This is my personal view)
Furthermore learning the qur’an and sunnah (Towhid, Kheyr, Manners) must be started from the parents them selves – how would they imagine their kids will learn the deen while they are ignorant of Allah.
Is just incredible to me how so called fathers (by title) in these days, neglect their kid’s welfare in this Kaafir land and all they apparently do every day is to have an untenable evil backwardness long qabyaalad chat in maqaaxis/maqaayados -
And also some so called nonsense mothers have this amazing and relentless clubbing fervour (Saturday Aroos nights)/ where ironically half dressed (cariyaat) so called mothers come together to jump around like a headless chickens with strange men in middle of the night ( Dhaanto, mixed buraanbur, ciyaar, jaas, dheel – call it what ever you like!) while they’re kids are watching unsuitable haram things on TV late at night- This is insane!
This is the worst example of a somalian family in the west- Yes I also agree the more we stay in the west the more likely we will end up in a bad situation so the best solution is to pack our bags as soon as possible and just run away as fastest we can from this place. Wallahu A’alam
Furthermore learning the qur’an and sunnah (Towhid, Kheyr, Manners) must be started from the parents them selves – how would they imagine their kids will learn the deen while they are ignorant of Allah.
Is just incredible to me how so called fathers (by title) in these days, neglect their kid’s welfare in this Kaafir land and all they apparently do every day is to have an untenable evil backwardness long qabyaalad chat in maqaaxis/maqaayados -
And also some so called nonsense mothers have this amazing and relentless clubbing fervour (Saturday Aroos nights)/ where ironically half dressed (cariyaat) so called mothers come together to jump around like a headless chickens with strange men in middle of the night ( Dhaanto, mixed buraanbur, ciyaar, jaas, dheel – call it what ever you like!) while they’re kids are watching unsuitable haram things on TV late at night- This is insane!
This is the worst example of a somalian family in the west- Yes I also agree the more we stay in the west the more likely we will end up in a bad situation so the best solution is to pack our bags as soon as possible and just run away as fastest we can from this place. Wallahu A’alam
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Arabman are you saying there is no safety issues in Somalia?.... have I heard it well.. have u implied that living in Somalia is safe?... ooh my God, were have u been living all these years my friend?... have u never been to Somalia?.... if u send a kid back to somalia you increase his chance of getting shot...
I got alotta families in Mogadishu and everyday one goes to town the rest of the family holds their breath hoping him to come back home safe..... its a country where killers live among society... someone kills innocent person, will sit next to the corpse and refuse anyone to remove the body from the site.. that is the kind of a country we are talking about!!.. and you are saying its safe......... please do not misguide parents ok
I got alotta families in Mogadishu and everyday one goes to town the rest of the family holds their breath hoping him to come back home safe..... its a country where killers live among society... someone kills innocent person, will sit next to the corpse and refuse anyone to remove the body from the site.. that is the kind of a country we are talking about!!.. and you are saying its safe......... please do not misguide parents ok
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Sandheer and Marduuf, I completely agree with you!!.. even considering sending your kids back is a major crime... and its crime against humanity to sent kids back to Somalia at the present time situation...
if the kids are becoming assoicated with other races, learning how to insult and adapting a hiphop culture, its the parents failure, its not the kids...... I am tired of parents that blame their kids for wrongdoingz.... it is YOU who is guilty of all the kids mishavior, dont take it out on the kid and make it look like his fault.......
if the kids are becoming assoicated with other races, learning how to insult and adapting a hiphop culture, its the parents failure, its not the kids...... I am tired of parents that blame their kids for wrongdoingz.... it is YOU who is guilty of all the kids mishavior, dont take it out on the kid and make it look like his fault.......
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It worked out well for my brother.
He was a troublesome kid, he was in a gang, was arrested
generaly a adanger to himself and others..
So we sent him to somalia, and in just 6 months the change was clear..
now hes an A student and in his last year of Uni.
and plus he knows more Suras of the quran than me..
alxamdulilah
He was a troublesome kid, he was in a gang, was arrested
generaly a adanger to himself and others..
So we sent him to somalia, and in just 6 months the change was clear..
now hes an A student and in his last year of Uni.
and plus he knows more Suras of the quran than me..
alxamdulilah
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