To FORGIVE or PAYBACK: Which is better ?

Post by **AbdiWahab252** » Wed Mar 15, 2006 10:15 am

Which is better if someone has wronged you in the past ? Should you settle scores or forgive them ?

ERITREAN_MOB_BOSS · Post by **ERITREAN_MOB_BOSS** » Wed Mar 15, 2006 10:57 am

I would like to say forgive but my past says I pay ppl back.....I don't like to owe ppl Laughing

If some one shoots at u, would u not shoot back?...if u don't then u one werid freak.....a scared man is a dead man...best believe i'm fighting back

Post by **AbdiWahab252** » Wed Mar 15, 2006 11:08 am

True... I got some payback to dish out on a gang of f*ckers that messed with me when I was a young lad. Those f*ckers are now weak and I am stronger & have allies in high & very low places.

My uncle once told me to plan your payback carefully. Do it at a time when it is in your advantage.

Post by **The-Screw** » Wed Mar 15, 2006 11:09 am

Sure, forgive. but first get even.

payback is a b!tch...

PETERCROUCH · Post by **PETERCROUCH** » Wed Mar 15, 2006 11:18 am

Like to say forgive but naah

Its only fair you pay back with intrest! Wink

Caydid · Post by **Caydid** » Wed Mar 15, 2006 12:52 pm

Smart and wise people forgive and move on. Settling scores is a primitive thing that is usually done by youngsters, gangsters and their likes.

fagash_killer · Post by **fagash_killer** » Wed Mar 15, 2006 12:55 pm

forgive if you follow ure religion but it depends on the situation though for example somebdoy shot ure father dead what should you do forgive ore kill that muttafucka so it really depends on the situation but if you look at ure religion that forgive is the best way to find ure solution and ure answers

Post by **The-Screw** » Wed Mar 15, 2006 12:55 pm

maybe smart people are not so smart after all .

Caydid · Post by **Caydid** » Wed Mar 15, 2006 1:00 pm

The screw

When I was young revenge was my best friend. I used to knock teeth, burn cars, sabotage and much more.

But nowadays I thank even those who wrong me- and life has never been this better. I have a peace of mind that I never had.

fagash_killer · Post by **fagash_killer** » Wed Mar 15, 2006 1:03 pm

caydiid junior right Laughing

Gacalisa · Post by **Gacalisa** » Wed Mar 15, 2006 1:47 pm

it always depends on the situation. if it is life and death situation, shit you better fight back, but if is something simple and a bit complicating, then forgiving is the best way to go.

but as somalis we have to much pride, to even let go of simple things.

Advocator · Post by **Advocator** » Wed Mar 15, 2006 3:43 pm

If I forgive....... best believe the sh!t will be eating inside me for a while,
But if I get my payback I could sleep better.... Cool

San_dheer · Post by **San_dheer** » Wed Mar 15, 2006 3:50 pm

Forgiving is better. Smile

Wise-Man · Post by **Wise-Man** » Wed Mar 15, 2006 5:06 pm

Well, You got two options: You are permitted to payback and treat the way you are treated without crossing the limit. But if you forgive and treat them nicely, would be better. It is hard for most us to do that except those who are patient and have a high moral character. I have never revenged against anyone in my life. I really donÃ¢Â€Â™t know why, but I feel like I am just a poor guyÃ¢Â€Â¦

simplicity- · Post by **simplicity-** » Wed Mar 15, 2006 5:09 pm

[quote="Wise-Man"] I feel like I am just a poor guyÃ¢Â€Â¦[/quote]

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