Why do girls get marry at tender age???

Post by **Icey** » Thu Mar 30, 2006 5:04 pm

Wallahi I seen girls get marry at the age of 15. Some get marry before they go to college. Why can't they wait till they finish their education?
One more question in our religion do girls have to get marry as soon as they start their monthly cycle?

Xplosive · Post by **Xplosive** » Thu Mar 30, 2006 5:07 pm

becos of sigis

Suhaylah · Post by **Suhaylah** » Thu Mar 30, 2006 5:43 pm

Wouldn't it be wonderful if we could resolve the problem of young Muslim girls straying from what Allah has allowed in relationships with the opposite sex by simply reintroducing youthful marriage, which has traditionally been accepted within Islam?

LaDy-Qac · Post by **LaDy-Qac** » Thu Mar 30, 2006 5:48 pm

^

@ Xpo, cajuuskaa wale waad maryo dhigatay cawaa Laughing

Icey, it' s up to them( those girls) at the end of the day innit?. I mean if they think they can handle that responsiblity at 15 then may allah (SWT) help them. Getting married at a early age is something that recommended and the girl can always finish her education if she wants to.

I don' t think islam has any restrictions on that matter( marriage). It' s entirely up to the individual

QansaGabeyle · Post by **QansaGabeyle** » Thu Mar 30, 2006 5:50 pm

I heard old moms give birth to retards. That what doctors say anyway.

Ashlee · Post by **Ashlee** » Thu Mar 30, 2006 5:52 pm

call the cops, 15 is too young for marriage.

Post by **Icey** » Thu Mar 30, 2006 6:06 pm

EXPLOSIVE I AGREE WITH U ON THAT BECOS WE ARE ALL HUMAN BEINGS INIT Laughing

LADY QAC I SEEN GIRLS WHO MISSCONTINUED THEIR EDUCATION AFTER THEY HAD KIDS. SUHAYALAH I DON'T HAVE ANY THINGS AGAINST OUR RELIGION. I THINK PEOPLE SHOULD GET MARRY WHEN THEY ARE READY MENTALLY. LOL AT QANSA I NEVER HEARD THAT Laughing

Xplosive · Post by **Xplosive** » Thu Mar 30, 2006 6:17 pm

kambuli · Post by **kambuli** » Thu Mar 30, 2006 7:13 pm

ICY,

Although they don't get married these days at age 15. Still what is troubling is the age gap between men and women getting married in our society. I saw last week a 42 year old man dating a 22 year old Evil or Very Mad

That is not fair.

Why wouldn't an old coughing guy get an old wrinkled women? Question

Xplosive · Post by **Xplosive** » Thu Mar 30, 2006 7:26 pm

^^I know this 42 yr old dude who just got married to a 16 year old chick Laughing

QansaGabeyle · Post by **QansaGabeyle** » Thu Mar 30, 2006 7:44 pm

Poor Kambuli can't find a man to date her "old coughing, wrinkled" behind. Laughing

But seriously though, I don't care about age gaps. I plan on marrying a 17 year old when I turn 60.

Nuruddin · Post by **Nuruddin** » Thu Mar 30, 2006 7:50 pm

This is the way I see it, the younger they get wed, the less xaram they can havoc.

Xplosive · Post by **Xplosive** » Thu Mar 30, 2006 7:58 pm

I bet most of your mothers were around 18 when they got married. Some even younger.

Its just how we do.

SoMaLiSiZz · Post by **SoMaLiSiZz** » Thu Mar 30, 2006 8:02 pm

Why do you ask this question?

Did you not have shahawaat when you were 15 years old? I think most of us had as Allah has created us that way !! no shame in that !!

I say get married if you can to stay clearn from the filth of dating and getting used and abused! As longs as it is legal under the Islamic law >>>>>NOTE<<<<< and the GIRL IS WILLING I say may Allah blesses it for you!

Fe Aman Ellah

QansaGabeyle · Post by **QansaGabeyle** » Thu Mar 30, 2006 8:06 pm

^^ How old are you and are you married?