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Why do girls get marry at tender age???
Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 5:04 pm
by Icey
Wallahi I seen girls get marry at the age of 15. Some get marry before they go to college. Why can't they wait till they finish their education?
One more question in our religion do girls have to get marry as soon as they start their monthly cycle?
Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 5:07 pm
by Xplosive
becos of sigis
Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 5:43 pm
by Suhaylah
Wouldn't it be wonderful if we could resolve the problem of young Muslim girls straying from what Allah has allowed in relationships with the opposite sex by simply reintroducing youthful marriage, which has traditionally been accepted within Islam?
Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 5:48 pm
by LaDy-Qac
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@ Xpo, cajuuskaa wale waad maryo dhigatay cawaa
Icey, it' s up to them( those girls) at the end of the day innit?. I mean if they think they can handle that responsiblity at 15 then may allah (SWT) help them. Getting married at a early age is something that recommended and the girl can always finish her education if she wants to.
I don' t think islam has any restrictions on that matter( marriage). It' s entirely up to the individual
Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 5:50 pm
by QansaGabeyle
I heard old moms give birth to retards. That what doctors say anyway.
Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 5:52 pm
by Ashlee
call the cops, 15 is too young for marriage.
Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 6:06 pm
by Icey
EXPLOSIVE I AGREE WITH U ON THAT BECOS WE ARE ALL HUMAN BEINGS INIT
LADY QAC I SEEN GIRLS WHO MISSCONTINUED THEIR EDUCATION AFTER THEY HAD KIDS. SUHAYALAH I DON'T HAVE ANY THINGS AGAINST OUR RELIGION. I THINK PEOPLE SHOULD GET MARRY WHEN THEY ARE READY MENTALLY. LOL AT QANSA I NEVER HEARD THAT
Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 6:17 pm
by Xplosive
Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 7:13 pm
by kambuli
ICY,
Although they don't get married these days at age 15. Still what is troubling is the age gap between men and women getting married in our society. I saw last week a 42 year old man dating a 22 year old
That is not fair.
Why wouldn't an old coughing guy get an old wrinkled women?
Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 7:26 pm
by Xplosive
^^I know this 42 yr old dude who just got married to a 16 year old chick
Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 7:44 pm
by QansaGabeyle
Poor Kambuli can't find a man to date her "old coughing, wrinkled" behind.
But seriously though, I don't care about age gaps. I plan on marrying a 17 year old when I turn 60.
Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 7:50 pm
by Nuruddin
This is the way I see it, the younger they get wed, the less xaram they can havoc.
Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 7:58 pm
by Xplosive
I bet most of your mothers were around 18 when they got married. Some even younger.
Its just how we do.
Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 8:02 pm
by SoMaLiSiZz
Why do you ask this question?
Did you not have shahawaat when you were 15 years old? I think most of us had as Allah has created us that way !! no shame in that !!
I say get married if you can to stay clearn from the filth of dating and getting used and abused! As longs as it is legal under the Islamic law >>>>>NOTE<<<<< and the GIRL IS WILLING I say may Allah blesses it for you!
Fe Aman Ellah
Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 8:06 pm
by QansaGabeyle
^^ How old are you and are you married?