WILL U MARRY A GIRL WHO IS NOT.....?

Young_Activist · Post by **Young_Activist** » Sun Apr 16, 2006 5:20 pm

Guys will u marry a girl who is not a Virgin? As we know it is been a cultural, and ritual thing for our girls to keep The only thing dat they have full control of, their Virginity. Now it is 2006, things are a bit different no, things are wayyy different and we know wat is up . So should one go against the norms and adjust to the 21st century and not to worry about dat thing. wat will one do if they find a girl they love, admire and like is not a virgin? Should it matter? Should one just marry someone based on other qualities? But wat about da fact that their was someone in there (slept with da girl) and BACDA WAALAGA SOO FIIQAY.

It is a disturbing thing, it is like how do u choose. This is not to pass a judgement and bad mouth da girls, but rather to focus on wat is important thing in choosing da person dat hopefully u could spend da rest of yor freakin life with.

biko · Post by **biko** » Mon Apr 17, 2006 4:58 am

that should only matter to a virgin. if you aint one yourself then its a focking stupid question.

Cindrella · Post by **Cindrella** » Mon Apr 17, 2006 6:25 am

Young,

I know this question was posed to the men but I too shall impart my opinion. I think such a woman who had liasons with men other than a previous husband would not make a suitable wife or a mother to your children, what kind of example whould she be setting? Confused

Its okay to have sexual relationships prior to marriage Shocked

In the case of a widow or divorcee (I do not think you were inquiring about this case scenario) such a thing should not affect your decision. Athough you are entitled to your prefrences.

[quote] The only thing dat they have full control of, their Virginity[/quote]

Unfortunately, this is not entirely true as there is such thing as RAPE and in which a girl/woman as no say in maintaining her chasity.

P.S brother it is most unfortunate that you did not consider the Islamic implications when you asked this question but rather contemplated the matter from a cultural perspective. Although in this case both has the same postion I strongly advise you to always consider things from the way a Muslim would look at it.

kambuli · Post by **kambuli** » Mon Apr 17, 2006 9:20 am

Young,

The question you asked is would you marry if a girl is not a virgin? Wouldn't it be "Would you divorce if you found out that the girl you love is not a virgin?"

How else would you find a girl not a virgin if you did not marry? unless you did Zinna with her? I did not get the question Surprised

San_dheer · Post by **San_dheer** » Mon Apr 17, 2006 9:43 am

kambuli

biko · Post by **biko** » Mon Apr 17, 2006 9:47 am

How else would you find a girl not a virgin if you did not marry?

maybe he saw something by the way she walk...some faraxs are good at detecting thos things.

kambuli · Post by **kambuli** » Mon Apr 17, 2006 10:05 am

Biko,

Come on... that is not possible Smile

Only a Zaani will find out a Zaaniya's situation. If on the otherhand an innocent guy finds that the girl he married has been running around then it is his choice to either cover her up or divorce her. Surprised

maria from west side · Mon Apr 17, 2006 10:21 am

Thanks to "plastic fantastic" they get to fix it and all the girls are now virgin.

I know, It's unbelivable Laughing

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Cawar · Post by **Cawar** » Mon Apr 17, 2006 10:30 am

Stupid question.

OdeyShirwac · Post by **OdeyShirwac** » Mon Apr 17, 2006 10:50 am

[quote="maria from west side"]Thanks to "plastic fantastic" they get to fix it and all the girls are now virgin. [/quote]

Maria, been there done that... miyaa shekadada Laughing

Young_Activist · Post by **Young_Activist** » Mon Apr 17, 2006 10:53 am

Kambuli , sometimes u asked them and they tell u wheather they are virgin or not. And sometimes u find it for yorself by .....u know.

Cinderella,

u are right, i should have added the islamic implication about this frustrating thing.

Biko,

if u wanna do watever the boyz do then u will end up been a wh0re. This isn't to say wat guys are doing is right, but boyz have nothing to loose as u are a ware of. And if iam a virgin so wat? atleast i can make ma future wife screem coz i never see the thing ....lol iam kidding. Biko walaahi it matters, like Cinderella put it, "...such a women who has laisons with other men other than a previous husband wouldn't make a suitable wife or a mother to yor children, what kind of example would she be setting?'

of course there are extreme circumstance such as rape, but i was not talking about those.

Kamal35 · Post by **Kamal35** » Mon Apr 17, 2006 10:55 am

Virgen aged women smell bad and stink... i.e: the nuns. I would never lay a nun down. They're disgusting. Virginity is disgusting at certain age: it doesn't mean 'new', but 'unused', which is different...

I always preferred an experienced girl, not a rookie in the sex issues.

maria from west side · Mon Apr 17, 2006 11:02 am

[quote="OdeyShirwac"][quote="maria from west side"]Thanks to "plastic fantastic" they get to fix it and all the girls are now virgin. [/quote]

Maria, been there done that... miyaa shekadada Laughing

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Naah, NO need to Smile

Young_Activist · Post by **Young_Activist** » Mon Apr 17, 2006 11:16 am

Cubeed=PUMBAVU

Garaad_LQ · Post by **Garaad_LQ** » Mon Apr 17, 2006 11:22 am

"if u wanna do watever the boyz do then u will end up been a wh0re. This isn't to say wat guys are doing is right, but boyz have nothing to loose as u are a ware of."

interesting.......the most important duty for a gurl is to keep her legz close till marriage.....simple is that ......haween sharafteedi ka dhaqaaqday haween maaha ...there is nothing left in her .......Sharaf el bint zay 3ud el Kabrit ........hadii mar la shido ....waa ka kac ...."one time use"