To do OR not to do a Wedding?

Monay · Post by **Monay** » Wed Apr 19, 2006 6:43 am

How important is it nowadays to set a wedding?
How much should a girl bend for the pressure ones family put on her to actually do a wedding?
What is more important, the officiliation of one getting married, or taking ones money and do something else with it?
How many women in here would want to do a wedding when the right time comes? How many wouldn't?
Is it more neccesary to do the mans wishes (not to waste money on a wedding) or the womens wishes (to do a wedding in order to celebrate ones big day)????

$un$hine · Post by **$un$hine** » Wed Apr 19, 2006 6:57 am

Your weddin should be a happy day sis..

Both for you, your husband and your familiez..

I personally would want a wedding...it enables you not only to celebrate..

But to make ur union with your loved one public..

So why not?

I understand about financial pressure sis.laakin do a small weddin..

u ur husband famil and friends...and book a hall or something..

It doesnt have to be luxurious..just fitting..

Thats wot i reckon anyhow!! Smile

Monay · Post by **Monay** » Thu Apr 20, 2006 7:49 am

Cheers walalo, I appreciate what u said, I will take great consideration to it!!
anybody else, feel free to say what u think!!

$un$hine · Post by **$un$hine** » Sat Apr 22, 2006 4:30 pm

Ur wlc..

just hope i've helped u out! Very Happy

nafisa.bush · Post by **nafisa.bush** » Tue May 02, 2006 9:48 am

If you can't afford to do a wedding then you shouldn't be getting married.

Wedding tells you whether you're financially stabled or just another typical qaxooty trying to do his/hers welfare wedding.

If you're fiancÃƒÂ©e can't afford to make a luxurious wedding for you; chances are he can't afford to raise a family. But then again that's what happens if you have low standards and you're planning to marry a farax.

Chances are you're wedding will be consistent of food being made by old xalimos, a cheap Indian hall with no decoration. Carpet borrowed from your neighborhood, a skinny dark dj that would be playing old Xassan Adan Samatar songs. Then you'll be going to your honeymoon, which is in a Shelter home to wait for your government housing, while your new husband travels to Kenya or Somalia for Imaginary fake business. 8 Months later you're pregnant, collecting Welfare, and no farax husband near by, but would probably have two or three of your siblings living with you.

So if you're question is should you have a wedding or not? You're first question should be... Can I do better then the piece of shyt that's in front of me??

Fithful Sister · Post by **Fithful Sister** » Sat Jun 03, 2006 8:47 pm

Nafisa your such a mad women..come down sis Rolling Eyes

Shankaroon_614 · Post by **Shankaroon_614** » Tue Jun 06, 2006 10:12 pm

Ma ila aragtay faithful sister? she is a mad person taking out on the Snet forumers...she is someone claiming to be Somalian, but is dumped by a somaliain dude...loser get out

Back to topic, Of course abaa having a wedding is very important because it is the most memorable moments ever.

nafisa.bush · Post by **nafisa.bush** » Tue Jun 20, 2006 10:50 am

shankaxaar ware you still after my punani?? listen who're i'm not a LESBO wadado, so I suggest you go to your dugsi and start su.cking on your macalin gu.s that's the only thing you're good at you illiterate kitchen xalimo

Gacalisa · Post by **Gacalisa** » Wed Jun 21, 2006 8:03 pm

weddings are important, and should be held in the way Allah said.

gabdho, your wedding day can be the happiest day, while still beign xalaal.

this is what i would do, and insha allah plan to do.

1. do the niggah at the masjid
2. have a little get together for me and mom; her closest friends and mine.

3. spend all the money i saved on seven day vocation.
4. have a little shaash saar for me.

not expensive, i am happy, my moms happy, and most importantly my honey is happy.

True Xaliimo · Post by **True Xaliimo** » Wed Jul 12, 2006 10:33 am

[quote="Monay"]How important is it nowadays to set a wedding?
How much should a girl bend for the pressure ones family put on her to actually do a wedding?
What is more important, the officiliation of one getting married, or taking ones money and do something else with it?
How many women in here would want to do a wedding when the right time comes? How many wouldn't?
Is it more neccesary to do the mans wishes (not to waste money on a wedding) or the womens wishes (to do a wedding in order to celebrate ones big day)????[/quote]

I think throwing a big bash to celebrate one's big day is a personal choice.... I know some pple r against it while a lot of our pple love the idea....

It just depends on what YOU as the actual couple who are tying the knot want to do....

Whatever rocks your boat I say... Very Happy

Happy Desperado · Post by **Happy Desperado** » Wed Jul 12, 2006 3:39 pm

whats the point in wasting so much money on a couple of hours Confused

i would definetly have a small wedding. also no video and even if i decide on one, it would be done by a family member. i hate it how wedding videos circulate

Monay · Post by **Monay** » Sat Jul 15, 2006 9:37 am

Wow, look at the responds.
Hi to all my sisters who replied, both the naughty ones and the good girls!
I decided that the best thing to do is to both satisfy myself and my man. So I arranged a lowbudget reception in a restaurant with close family and friends. And a shaash shaar for my mum and all her friends. And after that I decided that my man and me to go to a honeymoon in the Maldives, and frankly that's where most of our money went to.
So good luck to me sharing that with my man and my family coz this is in my head still.
And to all the girls out there going through the hell I went through in doing this, just take it easy and relax and prioritise what's best for all parts especially yourself!
Good luck in your wedding and marriage!!

Post by **Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE** » Mon Jul 17, 2006 1:00 am

I would definetly have a BIG wedding. Very Happy

I would hold my wedding in a big hotel so guests can have spaces and of course crumb on the dance floor. Razz

I would also have video that would be done by proffestional video studio that is only for wedding videos. my future husband would pay all the wedding budget and I will pay the honeymoon good deal eh Razz

Just like Shankaroon said, it's the most memorable moment in our lives. Sisters have a wedding or don't have it at all, if it is not going to be memorable Exclamation

The future, I want my kids to watch my wedding video Very Happy

Advocator · Post by **Advocator** » Tue Jul 18, 2006 9:51 pm

nafisa.bush · Post by **nafisa.bush** » Wed Jul 19, 2006 12:22 pm

Monay the only honeymoon you went to is cheap Holiday Inn Hotel near your city Rolling Eyes

stop contradicting yourself you dumb azz biatch.. A shashara and honeymoon doesn't go together. Either you had a Refugee wedding or a westernize wedding. fu.cking get your fact straight.

As for the rest of you clitless who're you can lick my punani Twisted Evil

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