GIVE THIS GUY SOME HELP!

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GIVE THIS GUY SOME ADVICE!



Assalaam alaikum Brothers and Sisters, i am already a member with a different login, but wish to remain annoymous from my existing login. I have a serious problem, that i wish that you can give me advice/support in. I will keep parts of my identity economical with truth, just in case, someone who knows me. works out it's me, so if some things i say conflict, it will be on irrelevant matters (i.e where i live etc). Anyway, i am looking for help support and need help desparately. I am married, with 2 kids and my wife and i are expecting our 3rd child in July. My relationship with my wife is sour, and has been for amny years. It's not because she is pregnant, as problems have been there since marriage. It could be the way she was brought up, or it could be my expectations of a wife. The marriage was halaal, but i chose her myself. I feel like i don't want to be with her anymore, but cannot risk the children being in that position. I am only staying for the kids. I'm nuts about them. I'm also not happy about the way she treats the kids. She's always telling them off, but in a way she does not like them. I rarely engage in what husbands and wifes should be engaging in. I have never talked about divorce with her, yet she has mentioned it many times. I have talked to her about having a second wife. She said she'd leave me. I asked her, that if i did, how, in Islam, would i be commiting a sin. Things are bad, and we have not talked with each other for 3 days now, but i do not feel like reconcilling with her. I feel like crying, but i'm doing a lot of sabbar, as i know, Allah knows best. Persoannly, i would like her to leave the house and kids, and let me get on with a life which i'll be happy with

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i knw wat you mean....my good FARAX FRIEND

i too had the same predicament with my wife wen we got married....
but it was'nt bcz it was bad frm the get go.....

its jus that i hate lookin at her butters children plus this bytche never heard of loosing weight....she jus sits their with her legs apart on the couch eaten bariis all-day....

wen we divorced i tricked her in signing the divorce papers.....she thougth we was jus re-newing our MASARIIF papers.....but she clocked on wen i neva came back after 3 and a half yrs now.....