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With out offending anyone or dragging up old wound's pointing finger's naming name's or making anyone feel bad ... I was wondering if there was a way we could have a discussion about people having arguement's here and not letting it affect the whole forum ...because as a rule it generally (online and in real life) end's up with more people at each other's throat's than the one's who start it , and before you start sticking pin's in a mini me Voodoo doll and say who do I think i am.....

I do include myself in all of it . Its easy to look back and think ... mm maybe i should'nt of said that and i for one often feel like that and in my cack handed way what i'm trying to say is - arguement's are a fact of life..... we can't please everyone all of the time ,but i personally have no problem with two individuals having a one on one ...it's only when well meaning people who rightly want to defend their friend's become involved that it blow's up in all kind's of proportion's and get's more out of hand ....Like .. how can a person go from zero to hero in 5/10 /15 post` with most forgetting who started the row and the majority feeling resentful because the original victim still want's justice and the rest just want to tell every one to live and let live .

Is it possible to just let them get on with it and unless it involve's us directley see if it blow's over any quicker ...intervening even with the best intention's only prolong's the agony and open's up new wound's. maybe we could all call a truce .. i'm game ..see how it goes . I really would like to know what people think even if you think it's a bad idea . I always think it's like a scab ..easy to have a little pick.......
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Can go from 0-- to bitch in 0.3 seconds like the cow in town! you know who you are..

I forgive you, only under one condition................

and what is that sam?

how the hell did we go from somalinet forum to the set of dr.phill?

[quote="*zabah"]and what is that sam?[/quote]

You know.......

Zabah-- I refuse to forgive u!!! Refuse it until you join Yam Yam in hell-- then i will have a soft change of heart & pray for you to never come out of it!

Ain't it better the use of the Ignore Mode On button?

I'm using it and it goes pretty good for me

Kamal35 Is On Your Ignore List.

Come again sxb, didn't quite get what you said

I still think a 'being an idiot' section would be a wonderful solution...

If someone wants to put up a bitch or attack thread fine, if folks want to respond to that thread fine...

but admin should move it off to this 'idiot section' and at that point, and folks posting in that thread can't post anywhere else here until their issue is resolved and that thread has been closed...

Babygal @ Idiot section...But if the those topics are posted by one of the administration themselves (Basra) how can they be directed to the idiot section

Have you ever heard of the song which goes like this...


Haddii dawo bukooto, maxaa lagu dabiibaa?
Haddii dabkii dhaxamoodo, maxaa lagu diiriyaa?

Sista kambuli you always make a good point and I respect you for that though half of the time I don't understand your somali grammar..


Like I said before
I like a good discussion but when it gets personal then it's pointless. I always think of a discusion forum as a sort of dynamic "Letters to the Editor". Someone can post that they heard the first cuckoo of spring or saw the first blowfly of summer but just as in LTTE if it's kept on point rather than on person it's far more interesting and engaging and educational and less inclined to push the blood pressure up.

however I see what you're trying to tell me, It completely didn't occured to me that queen b herself is on the lose and sadly is one of the administrators... It is a shame indeed..


Just my two bucks worth (inflation being what is is).

now your asking the imposible and personaly, i dont appreciate you telling us to stop behaving like faraxs and xalimos! !

[quote="avowedly-agnostic"]Kamal35 Is On Your Ignore List.

Come again sxb, didn't quite get what you said [/quote]


What makes the difference, avowedly, is that I won't include you on my ignore list, but all those dumbasses who are annoying and insulting people and not discussing about interesting issues, aka Lionass or Sí-Lacayo. I respect the other people, but these ones, along with Aiman/Biscuit, etc, are in the Ignore Mode On Button for a long long long while.


Somalinet is such a beautiful place without them

[quote="biko"]now your asking the imposible and personaly, i dont appreciate you telling us to stop behaving like faraxs and xalimos! ![/quote]

[quote="Basra-"]Zabah-- I refuse to forgive u!!! Refuse it until you join Yam Yam in hell-- then i will have a soft change of heart & pray for you to never come out of it! [/quote]

Basra whose this Yam Yam chick you're obessed with? What the hell have she done to you to make you this miserable?