[quote="SoMaLiSiZz"]Asalam Alaikom Warhmatullah Wbaraktuh
You call that love ?? dating is xaram so what ever you are doing is you following your own hawa [hormons shahawaat] and the footsteps of the devil, and that will lead you to more evil and the anger of Allah and his punishment.. if you are a muslim repent to Allah now and stop acting like a freaking kaafir when the hell is dating premissible in islam if you are a muslim talking about this dirt like it was normal what kind rules do you adhere ruls from the Quran I think not!!!!
You better repent to Allah, or if you love the devil more then Allah do not repent and die in that state thinking you will have time to repent later on and enter hell fire.. your pick !
In islam we LOVE for the sake of ALLAH and we HATE for the sake of ALLAH ...
but when someone followes the devil the love from his sake and hate for his sake. and this is one of these love and if you hate anything islamic then you are hating for the sake of the devil..
take a lesson form this or you know your way to the hell fire
may Allah guide Prophet Mohamed's Ummah salawat Allah w salamu calah!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Good luck ![/quote]
Assalamu Alaikum,
Sis, wallahi I love you for the sake of Allah (SWT) and I hope you don't mind me saying this, but wallahi sister...if I was this sister you were given this advice to I would've been hurt by words instead of taking it as an advice. Sister we are to be kind and merciful to our fellow brothers/sisters in faith and harsh against the disbelievers. Yes! this sister is doing something haram but honestly sister, there is better words (kind words) you could have used.
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Allah (SWT) tells us,
"Invite to the way of your Lord with wisdom and good instruction, and argue with them in The way that is best"
And the saying of Him, the Glorified oÂÂne:
"So by Mercy from Allaah,(O Muhammad)you were lenient with them. And if you had been rude,and harsh in heart, they would have disbanded from about you".
And The saying of His the Most Majestic regarding Musa and Haaroon:
"And speak to him with gentle speech that perhaps he may be reminded or fear"
And in an authentic Hadeeth, the Prophet(S) said:
"O Allaah, Whoever is a gaurdian over any of the affairs of my Ummaah and he is gentle with them, then be gentle with him. And whoever is a gaurdian over any of the affairs of my Ummaah, and he is harsh with them, then be harsh with him".
Read the rest of the article here sis --->
http://www.khalidmosque.com/en/modules. ... 388&page=1Wallahi, again sis I love you for the sake of Allah (SWT) and respect you as my beautiful sister in Islam so I really hope you don't mind me saying what I just said. Mash'Allah your advice was really good and Insh'Allah I really, really hope the sister will take it but you must know sister that no one is perfect, everyone makes mistakes and this sister might not really know that "dating" is haram in Islam. Before I started learning about Islam and I started practicing, I never knew dating or mixing with males was haram in Islam because no one ever taught me this, I knew "culturally" speaking I was not allowed to do this but not Islamically speaking...this sister could be in the same situation as I was back then. Allahu 'Alam
Better go and pray Isha
Salam