ARE BAD FATHERS TO BLAME FOR THE WORLD'S PROBLEMS?

[LionHeart-112]

It looks that way. It seems that every anti-social bastard who murders, kills, tortures and maims people, every narcissist who goes to great lenghths to become wealthy and famous, every abuser have something in common with the three most brutal dictators in recent history.

Hitler-Alcoholic father, was beaten all the time

Stalin (the worst leader ever)-had an alcoholic father, also beaten shitless, sought refuge in his mother's arms.

Saddam-Severly abused by step-father, runs away to live with uncle.


I watched and read these bastard's biographies and they all have this in common-all three have been severely abused when they were young by their father. They all grew up to be bullies. All killed and massacred to prove their points.



ADVICE TO ALL MEN: PLEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAASE LOVE YOUR SONS AND DAUGHTERS. LOVE THEM SO THEY DONT' GROW UP TO BE PSYCHOPATHS.

[COSTA]

xasan daahir aweys was abused by his father

sheekh daahir aweys used to fukk his child xasan



thats why he has problem

the man deserves to be either in guantanamo or in shinglamateewo(in mombsa)

[Under Taker.]

"ADVICE TO ALL MEN: PLEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAASE LOVE YOUR SONS AND DAUGHTERS. LOVE THEM SO THEY DONT' GROW UP TO BE PSYCHOPATHS."

like you you mean

i agree with you completely, some people should not have any children

[LionHeart-112]

COSTA...and u know that for a fact?

I aint talking about sexual abuse, you moron.

[Cheroke]

I think parents are to blame for their kids outcome, You are what raise you, If your mother or father was a alcoholic theirs a slight chance you'll inhertiate that, and become one. So I do agree. And also the more you advise your kids the more they learn from you and the more that helps them into their adult life stage.

[LionHeart-112]

Cherokee...Well said.

I also think that fathers NOT being there for their children also affects them tremendously. Studies have shown, for example, daughters whose fathers weren't present were more likely to lose their virginity at a much younger age and also be susceptible to lead a life of promiscuity. Imagine what lack of father can do to a boy. No direction, no role model, no support.

[Cheroke]

That's very true.

As Somalia, People have seen these activities occur more then ones, where the father supposedly never around, And always out to some endless battle, that doesn't guarantee a arrival back, which leaves the kids to continue their fathers accomplishment and due to the lack of guidance.

[Xplosive]

I've been saying this for a long time. If Somali fathers were any good then we as Somalis wouldnt be having half the problems we are facing now especially in qurbaha. All the Jamaican/African American criminal low lifes are the way they are because they've had weak father-figures or no fathers at all. Un-fortunately I see us Somalis heading down the same road.

[Cheroke]

X, I couldn't agree more bro. Behind every troubled kid their was a troubled father in the picture. Our forefathers are to blame for the current situation in Somalia.

[fagash_killer]

[quote="Under Taker."]"ADVICE TO ALL MEN: PLEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAASE LOVE YOUR SONS AND DAUGHTERS. LOVE THEM SO THEY DONT' GROW UP TO BE PSYCHOPATHS."

like you you mean

i agree with you completely, some people should not have any children [/quote]

Think about this: Why did you have children? Barring a mandate from god, I’m willing to bet it was because you wanted to, because you wanted a family.

I’m not saying that child-rearing isn’t a noble endeavor, but it seems that the motives are less than altruistic. Be honest, do we really think our children are going to cure cancer? To decipher time travel? To answer the question of existence?

Now think about this: What if you knew with absolute certainty that your first child is going to be murdered before he or she is twenty-five. The specifics only dictate that it’s the most agonizing and excruciating death you can imagine. You don’t know where or when, only that it will occur in the future. Even if you have more than a single child, the first born will be dead. Will you still have the child?

If so, why? I’ve heard parents say they would die for their children, but would you willingly send someone into a death you wouldn’t wish on someone else?

Now consider this: Your first born child is going to grow up to be a serial murderer. Regardless of how you choose to raise the child, he or she is going to horribly kill 17 or more people before age forty. Would you still have the child?

If so, why? Would you be willing to face his or her victims in court and tell them that you knew this was going to happen, but allowed it anyway?

I’m interested to hear how you all answer.

[LaDy-Qac]

Oh my dayz...F-killer

Who wrote that reply for you man

[Cheroke]

^ I was guessing the same, That definitely isn't FK, With his mass grammatically errors in every post he replies to, This particular post has no error, This centainly concludes that indeed it isn't him.

[Touheed]

fagash_killer this not about having children but about impact Parents have on children.Like dogs can look like their owners???

[Under Taker.]

fk, i saw an episode related to that on twilight zone!

but to answer your question, we dont have the burden of knowing the future so in this case, ignorance is bliss. but if i had the miracle of this premonition, i would still have the kid. i do the raising, the kid makes the choices. besides, no one would believe me if i told them that i 'knew' what was going to happen, they would probably diagnose me with some none existent disease and put in me in a psych ward

this is where fate takes its course.

[kambuli]

Walaahay I have the best dad on this world ( May be there are some like him) Ilaahayow Aabbahay iyo Hooyadayba khayrka ugu badan sii....