I can't Stand

kambuli · Post by **kambuli** » Fri May 19, 2006 6:22 am

I just can't stand people who have no confidence at all. Yesterday when I was waiting for the elevator on my work place, a Pakistani women approaches me and she asks me some questions like "Do you work here etc." Then she goes " Can we wear the xijaab in this work place?" She continues " I am a new hire and I was not sure if I could wear the xijaab" Exclamation

What is more is, I was only wearing a scarf on my head not even a bigger xijaab..... Some people are just not confident with themsleves Question

Post by **Basra-** » Fri May 19, 2006 8:42 am

ok......

....We know u are a good Muslimah & wear hijaab--no need to advertise--- Allah is all 'knowing' & 'seeing' Very Happy

Galol · Post by **Galol** » Fri May 19, 2006 8:49 am

Kambuli

Usually you write clearly and succinctly. Not this time. the lady asked Qs perfectly reasonable ones it seems so what has confidence got to do with it?

Have I missed something my enemy number 1?

kambuli · Post by **kambuli** » Fri May 19, 2006 9:13 am

Enemy #2,

If she wanted to wear a scarf why wouldn't she? Why would she please her employer who even didn't deny her the freedom to dress modestly? Specially in American Corporate offices, no one has ever denied xijaab.

Basr,

Do not make me dig your bragging 24/7. So for you wearing a Xijaab is the ultimate sign of being a good muslima. My dear it is more than that. Laughing

Galol · Post by **Galol** » Fri May 19, 2006 9:21 am

Kambuli

I am so disappointed with the demotion. So who is your number 1 enemy then? I am jealous!

Anyway for someone who claims to be a Muslimah you certainly have a mean streak in you. What is wrong with the lady not knowing how to behave with a new employer?

You are like one of those people who hate people telling them they are not well " well go the effing hospital then do I look like an ambulance to you"?

kambuli · Post by **kambuli** » Fri May 19, 2006 9:26 am

Enemy #2,

See you already started. You can't have a decent discussion.
Stop attacking me. As I posted before in this forum, there are people who care about the people..There was this women who covered her hair when she saw me... Sad

Who am I? and this women apparently she used to wear xijaab but took it out for the job..Disgusting...

Basra,

So there was a guy running after you? Laughing

Post by **Basra-** » Fri May 19, 2006 9:35 am

I can't believe this! Kambuli --u actually addressed me TWO times before i even had a chance to respond to the first one? Wow---nayaa--- Baal ukaadhi--- Cag dhiigo, haaigu soo guurgurnin balaayo fedho weyne! Laughing

How is my terrible somali? Laughing

Gacalisa · Post by **Gacalisa** » Fri May 19, 2006 9:57 am

I know i hate people who lack confidence, especially when it comes to the diin.

QansaGabeyle · Post by **QansaGabeyle** » Fri May 19, 2006 10:06 am

I don't know why anyone in America would worry about wearing a Hijaab unless their imaan is daciif. Americans, however ignorant they are about the world, are very tolerant people as far as I know.

Cheroke · Post by **Cheroke** » Fri May 19, 2006 10:16 am

I agree, Whose with less confident will do anything that's being asked of them, It's great have self confidence.

LionHeart-112 · Post by **LionHeart-112** » Fri May 19, 2006 10:19 am

I have had the same problem, kambuli, with people who asked me if we could pray at work..i was like go to the nearest vacant conference room and bow down, bit.ch..shiiiiiiiiiiit

foolxume2005 · Post by **foolxume2005** » Fri May 19, 2006 10:27 am

@ Lion, your'e stupid Laughing

LionHeart-112 · Post by **LionHeart-112** » Fri May 19, 2006 10:31 am

foolxume....looooool..well thanks but that's the truth man. One time, one of the site managers walked in while i was praying. She wanted to itnerview some1 in that small conference room. She later asked me what game i was playing. Laughing

Post by **Basra-** » Fri May 19, 2006 10:35 am

Lion how can u be so 'Dirty' & PRAY at the same time??? A perv Wadaad??? Catholic priest style?? looool Shocked

It is frightening & amusing at the same time! Laughing

LionHeart-112 · Post by **LionHeart-112** » Fri May 19, 2006 10:42 am

Basra...Don't you know that the salat is also a spiritually cleansing ritual? Any dembi u commit between salaats is erased as soon as you prat the next salaat..This is small dembis, of course, that don't require repentance.

I'm not dirty..i just have a dirty mouth and mind.