May Allah swt guide us all, make us good wifes, daughters, sisters and a good woman in general!Qualities of a good muslim woman:
She is content: Such woman is the best one who becomes happy and
content when her husband puts a loving glance on her, and when he
orders her for something right, she obeys him immediately, and never
does any thing against his will. - Holy Prophet Muhammad (Salla
Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam)
She is a great cook and a good administrator: A woman who cooks neat,
clean and delicious food for her husband. Allah Subhanwat'ala has
provided great food for such nice wife in paradise. In heaven, she
will be asked to drink and eat whatever you wish, as this is the
reward for the pain and services which you performed for your
husband! - Holy Prophet Muhammad (Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa
Sallam)
The best woman among your women is one who cooks delicious food,
spends the money justly and does not waste it. Such women are the
workers of Allah Subhanwat'ala, and the workers of Allah never get
hopeless and regretful! - Imam Jafer-e-Sadiq Radi Allahu anhu
She is priceless: A woman doesn't have any price, whether she is good
or bad. A good and nice lady can not be measured with money or gold
or silver, as she is far more expensive and precious than money or
gold. Similarly, a woman with bad character and worst nature can not
be compared with sand, as sand is far more higher and good than her.
- Imam Jafer-e-Sadiq Radi Allahu anhu
She is loving, caring and patient: Do not you want me to tell you
about those ladies who will enter paradise? A woman who is loving and
caring to her husband, and gives births to his children and when he
gets angry with her, she instantly says My hand is in your hand like
she does not get satisfied until her husband becomes happy with her.
- Holy Prophet Muhammad (Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa Sallam)
She is obedient: Lucky and fortunate woman is one who respects her
husband and does not give him any pain, hurt or discomfort and does
not makes him worried and obeys him in all the right aspects of life.
- Imam Jafer-e-Sadiq Radi Allahu anhu
She does Jehaad: The Jehaad of woman is that she must not lose her
patience if she gets hurt from her husband. Her patience is her
Jehaad. - Holy Prophet Muhammad (Salla Allahu ta'ala 'alayhi wa
Sallam)