Under what conditions would you marry a NonMuslim ?
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Under what conditions would you marry a NonMuslim ?
Under what conditions would you marry a NonMuslim ?
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Would I marry someone who eats pork, someone who drinks alcohol, someone who associates Allah with partners, someone who considers herself as the Chosen people, someone who would raise my children with her beliefs? No. There are hundreds millions sisters who are waiting for me, and I intend to honor one (or upto 4) of them.
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No way I would marry none Muslim. But there are some under conditions Muslim can marry none Muslim woman, which is she should be " chaste or mohsena" who doesn't believe sex before marriage, doesn't mix with none mohram men. Who is true christian, means not only by name but beliefs Injeel. And the last she should live under Muslim majority rules , so she can't have upper hand on her Muslim husband but the rule between them should be Islamic and she should accept that.
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[quote = The Arabman] Would I marry someone who eats pork [/quote]
Not all non-Muslims consume pork sir; if anything many religions such as Judaism and Hinduism prohibit it. Many others (who don't adhere to any particular religion) on grounds of ethics choose to be vegetarians and therefore don't eat meat at all. And there are of course those sad cases such as that of mine where people become vegeterian for reasons of popularity and fashion.
[quote = The Arabman] someone who drinks alcohol [/quote]
Not all non-Muslims drink alcohol either.
[quote = The Arabman] someone who associates Allah with partners [/quote]
A great many of us don't associate anything with Allah sir. For many of us the dude dosen't exist- so you needn't worry about that one.
[quote = The Arabman] someone who considers herself as the Chosen people [/quote]
I take it you're referring to the Jewish people here. That's odd coming from one who believes that his own religion and way of life is the "chosen" path of god- not too different of a concept from the very people you criticise is it?
In any case Mr Arabman, as it's already been pointed out, you're permitted according to prophetic traditions to marry a non-Muslim given that she's not a Mushrik. Which of course begs the question, why Mohammed permitted upto 4 non-Muslim wives for men, and prohibited women from marrying even a single non-Muslim . Could it possibly be that Islam is a philosophy concocted by men for men's sake? This is further illustrated by the fact that good old prophet Mohammed himself had a harem of twelve wives (which just illustrates the contradictions within Islam because the Quran establishes an upper limit of four to the number of women one is permitted to marry)
As for the question, would I marry a non-Muslim? - Only if she remained that way.
Not all non-Muslims consume pork sir; if anything many religions such as Judaism and Hinduism prohibit it. Many others (who don't adhere to any particular religion) on grounds of ethics choose to be vegetarians and therefore don't eat meat at all. And there are of course those sad cases such as that of mine where people become vegeterian for reasons of popularity and fashion.
[quote = The Arabman] someone who drinks alcohol [/quote]
Not all non-Muslims drink alcohol either.
[quote = The Arabman] someone who associates Allah with partners [/quote]
A great many of us don't associate anything with Allah sir. For many of us the dude dosen't exist- so you needn't worry about that one.
[quote = The Arabman] someone who considers herself as the Chosen people [/quote]
I take it you're referring to the Jewish people here. That's odd coming from one who believes that his own religion and way of life is the "chosen" path of god- not too different of a concept from the very people you criticise is it?
In any case Mr Arabman, as it's already been pointed out, you're permitted according to prophetic traditions to marry a non-Muslim given that she's not a Mushrik. Which of course begs the question, why Mohammed permitted upto 4 non-Muslim wives for men, and prohibited women from marrying even a single non-Muslim . Could it possibly be that Islam is a philosophy concocted by men for men's sake? This is further illustrated by the fact that good old prophet Mohammed himself had a harem of twelve wives (which just illustrates the contradictions within Islam because the Quran establishes an upper limit of four to the number of women one is permitted to marry)
As for the question, would I marry a non-Muslim? - Only if she remained that way.
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bird,
since when is u ever inclined with the notion of marriage? That is a union to be served under a holly sect (various religions/believes…take your pick) or man made laws that would seek to govern and demands those under its subscription to acknowledge a figure of Highness over them and submit to its laws.
Now I don't know about you bird, but that ain't exactly a notion that would register well with free birds like yourself, marka what is this "I would marry"' talk dee, u are a free bird for life, don't let no chicka hold u down and drag you amidst the gag of such a holy haze. fly now, fly way my bird
since when is u ever inclined with the notion of marriage? That is a union to be served under a holly sect (various religions/believes…take your pick) or man made laws that would seek to govern and demands those under its subscription to acknowledge a figure of Highness over them and submit to its laws.
Now I don't know about you bird, but that ain't exactly a notion that would register well with free birds like yourself, marka what is this "I would marry"' talk dee, u are a free bird for life, don't let no chicka hold u down and drag you amidst the gag of such a holy haze. fly now, fly way my bird
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Lol @ the fantastic free bird
[quote = ms free ] Since when is u ever inclined with the notion of marriage [/quote]
Since I met the gorgeous Ms free bird.
[quote= ms free ] That (marriage) is a union to be served under a holly sect [/quote]
Ever heard of civil or humanist marriages?
A non-religious marriage is founded on the efforts and relationship of the couple, there is no place in the marriage or the wedding for a supernatural power.
[quote = ms free ] Since when is u ever inclined with the notion of marriage [/quote]
Since I met the gorgeous Ms free bird.
[quote= ms free ] That (marriage) is a union to be served under a holly sect [/quote]
Ever heard of civil or humanist marriages?
A non-religious marriage is founded on the efforts and relationship of the couple, there is no place in the marriage or the wedding for a supernatural power.
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agnostic - imo, there's no such thing as a secular marriage - a 'civil union' sure, all you need for that is to sign some papers at city hall. but to take faith out of the factor is to reduce a marriage to a legal contract.
marriage is supposed to be a foundation to bring spiritual beings into the world and it's a responsibility that people should take seriously.
marriage is supposed to be a foundation to bring spiritual beings into the world and it's a responsibility that people should take seriously.
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bird,
civil marraige I know, but what the hell is a huminist? waryaa I ain't no damn nudist makra iga bydh that huminst/naturalist bullshid
and of course, civil marraiges do indeed come under the rule of governed laws regardless of who authored them, marka that still cages you dee
u said...
"A non-religious marriage is founded on the efforts and relationship of the couple, there is no place in the marriage or the wedding for a supernatural power."
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or any other power for that matter, marka fock city hall.. grab your luggage, i'll drag mine, and lets find a nest somewhere dee. Oh shid I forget, your greedy arz wants to sign that dotted line at city call so u can reap all the benifits a marraige would avail in these semi-free societies. Shid, you sell-out capitalist bastard!
<-----slams the door
civil marraige I know, but what the hell is a huminist? waryaa I ain't no damn nudist makra iga bydh that huminst/naturalist bullshid
and of course, civil marraiges do indeed come under the rule of governed laws regardless of who authored them, marka that still cages you dee
u said...
"A non-religious marriage is founded on the efforts and relationship of the couple, there is no place in the marriage or the wedding for a supernatural power."
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or any other power for that matter, marka fock city hall.. grab your luggage, i'll drag mine, and lets find a nest somewhere dee. Oh shid I forget, your greedy arz wants to sign that dotted line at city call so u can reap all the benifits a marraige would avail in these semi-free societies. Shid, you sell-out capitalist bastard!
<-----slams the door
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