
Now another shocker is---after moving on to another subject-- my sister insisted or rather reminded me to MUST go visit my aunt & see my cousin as well. In a freudian slip--- I said--- 'oh sure i will Walaal,--- i will stop by to give my Condolences! Just like that--without thinking! --i said these exact words! My good hearted sister --was shocked!! She yelled at me ---& literally awakening me & making me realize what i just said. She said what Condolences??? --The boy is not dead. Oh My God---Basra-- u are worst than our aunt!!!



Now knowing me & my ego-- i blamed the freudian slip--as just a 'slip'. Or that i agree with my aunt since she is my elder-- i respect my elders--if not mimic my elders in a massive subconscious level.



So my question is : Are Somalis heartless?? Do they treat their kids as wealth or asserts?? I have another aunt who has 10 children-- i asked her one day-- why did she have all the kids? She said-- well --children are like eggs or chicken--some will go bad & others good- or some can be run over by a bus- some will turn alcoholistes--others dhiloyiins & others good-- so its a good bet to be secured.(I am thinking what if all go bad?)
Naturally,--i was speechless! Do we come from a bad bad bad culture?? Or is it just my family??? IF it is the latter then ---Gosh i need a new family--because i think i am being influenced to be heartless without my permission!




