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Hey dudes and dudettes!

Has any other girl or whatever, encountered a certain type of female, who gets all territorial around you? I mean, i seem to get it all the time, even though Im not a threat to anyone, I have so much love to give i swear!

It usually starts off quite well, you get along like a house on fire, then you begin to notice that their smiles fade really quick....then they begin trying to put you down infront of mutual friends etc....but I always laugh it off thinking its innocent, but now I know the signs, its scary man.

I dont want any trouble, and I can never say anything because everything they do is always undercover and undetected by most other people. And if I were to say anything, she could easily deny it....I mean what to do???

I really need someone with experience to help me out here, I dont like the way I feel when I know someone like that is around me

intriuging!

a facinating insight into female psyche

Waryaa ha igu qoslin! Its not funny, I dont know what to do around these chicks, Ive encountered about 5 in my adult life (since 18 ) its horrid the way they behave

My advice would be, only take as close friends those who are close friends, and deal superficially those who are superficial. If someone is always bringing you down, they are not a friend.

Thanks Mac, I certainly wouldnt have ever described them as friends, but we always end up in mutual friend situations, u try to avoid being around them, but because of mutual friends, they are around more than u would like. I cant tell my friends not to be around them, because it isnt fair on them, i cant choose their friends for them.....i guess its kinda complicated.

Unfortunately, a trait of women is that they can be very catty sometimes. Men compete in a very different and usally much more direct way than women. If you have a good heart, then just let that shine through, and ignore the petty. People see through it at the end of the day, and sweet women are inherently attractive. Esspecially after you get out of the teen and early 20s years.

Glad to be a Somali. I can tell to a girl when she tresspasses over the boundary. I sing, stop in the name of the.................

Happy Eid Gedo, and to your kids and hubby.

Gedo gurl---are you having problems in your circle of lesbians? Whose girlfriend are you trying to steal now?

GG thats terrible i think the only solution is just to stay as far away as possible. You dont need someone to put you down infront of people to make them feel better.

usagichan


u know--sometimes its not entirely about 'feeling better'---sometimes people like geod gurl deserve it. They are so dumb that--u have to point their dumbness through elaborate hints here & there.

My my arent we catty this morning

Anyway i dont know her so i gave her the advice i would give myself

Gedo..I think you need a Geedi Shaambow in cases like this...a cool, collective and wise man who could use some magic if needed to drive all these unwanted and silly feelings and make you happy.

If you need anymore info in how to find him...dont hesitate to contact me.

well stop whatever it is your doing thats making others insecure.

stop hanging out with ugly girls.

[quote="biko"]well stop whatever it is your doing thats making others insecure.

stop hanging out with ugly girls.[/quote]


Thy talk to thyself!

Cawar whats a geedi shambow