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im just talking general..
in somali society today girls gotta to watch what she does..where she goes nah'mean not tht she supposed to do xaram things anyway same goes for guyz. I know more than 5 girls who got pregnant and got disowned by her family..for going into the 'wrong crowd' some didnt even get married to the guy, 1 lost her baby due to the xanaaq' of the somali community and the rest..were taken to somalia.

I know some of he guyz who got these girls pregnant as they say it takes 2..so why is it that the girl takes the fall..but everyone is silence on the guy. all i hear is dhiloda..this and tht basterrd child. its like culture accepts that guys make mistakes but girls cant, religion says that its equal punishment for both sexes..i think they ment to be stoned. even though no one really does it..

the girl ends up being single in a council flat why they guy just says it was a one night stand..and gives no financial support and gets on with his education and life..

so..no boy can call a girl a hoe..as its ther part responsibility!

and as for the marriage talk im gonna marry me a freshie..this and tht..its easy for guys 2 see if shes a freshy..but not for girls as u can say 2 her yeah am a virgin..she cnt argue bak..but for guyz its a whole different story

[quote="CaRaMeL_CuPcAkEs"] they guy just says it was a one night stand..and gives no financial support and gets on with his education and life..[/quote]

XAASID

BUT THATS LIFE, THE CHICK SHULD HAVE NOT OPEND HER LEGS

YES EVEN THO IT TAKES 2

IT TAKES 1 TO REFUSE AND PREVENT THE WHOLE SITUATION

I JUS SEE IT AS LACK OF COMMONSENSE

DA REASON DA GA DURL GETS BLAMED IS CUZ SHE IS LEFT WIV DA BURDEN, SHE HAS TO CARRY DA BABY FOR NINE MONTHS SO SHE CANT LIE ABOUT IT, WHEREAS BOIZ CAN, ITS DA SAME IN EVERY CULTURE NOT JUS SOMALI CULTURE EVEN BRITISH CULTURE IS SIMILAR

N GURLS REP IS EASILY TARNSHED WHEREAS A BOIZ IS NOT
BUT GURLZ N BOIZ GET DA SAME SINZ 4 IT N DA SAME PUNISHMENST FOR ALLAH, SO DA BOIZ MAY THINK THEY ARE LUCKY BUT ALLAH WILL TREAT DEM DA SAME

at the end of the day yes its takes two, but have yall eva wonded y CONDOMS where invented, or going on the pill,

its the gyals fault for opening her legs and not gettin protection
as well as the boi..for taken advantage !!

[quote="WeSt-LoNdOn-ChIcK"]at the end of the day yes its takes two, but have yall eva wonded y CONDOMS where invented, or going on the pill,

its the gyals fault for opening her legs and not gettin protection
as well as the boi..for taken advantage !![/quote]

yeah well if you know tht u gonna have sex anywayz..its best to be safe than sorry..so just marry the geezer! yeah and another thing..ya risking getting hiv, aids, std's..so thats one of the reasons its haram in the first place!

but everyones knows that girls can control there sexual feelin wen it cum to feelin horny then bois, if there not gonna use protection and give it up to him freely, then there gonna expect a lil'in..!!

i know dis girl that 17 and she is seein dis guy that around 32, only coz he is more experinced... how sick..!!

[quote="WeSt-LoNdOn-ChIcK"]

or going on the pill,

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thats an early abortion ma, plus both condoms and the pills are xaraam

[quote="WeSt-LoNdOn-ChIcK"]but everyones knows that girls can control there sexual feelin wen it cum to feelin horny then bois[/quote]

NOT ALWAYS

WALLAHI CERTIAN CHICKS ARE 10 TIMES MORE HORNY THEN US

[quote="SNM chick"]DA REASON DA GA DURL GETS BLAMED IS CUZ SHE IS LEFT WIV DA BURDEN, SHE HAS TO CARRY DA BABY FOR NINE MONTHS SO SHE CANT LIE ABOUT IT, WHEREAS BOIZ CAN, ITS DA SAME IN EVERY CULTURE NOT JUS SOMALI CULTURE EVEN BRITISH CULTURE IS SIMILAR

N GURLS REP IS EASILY TARNSHED WHEREAS A BOIZ IS NOT
BUT GURLZ N BOIZ GET DA SAME SINZ 4 IT N DA SAME PUNISHMENST FOR ALLAH, SO DA BOIZ MAY THINK THEY ARE LUCKY BUT ALLAH WILL TREAT DEM DA SAME[/quote]

Yeah true..................

My sisters and brothers get married and stop with ZINAH

^^.YEA

Sisters Sisters!
Let me tell you something, be smart and DONT DATE!
If a man truly respects you he will make you his wifey and he wouldnt take you to stupid places, he wouldnt make a fool out of you.
Look at yourself sisters you are like a Diamond! Not cheap! Not for every strange man to look at! Play with!
Be smart, dont be the fool stay away from this boys who are looking to play around and wait for that special one who will propose

U ARE TOTALLY RIGHT YOUNGMUSLIM
GURLS SHOULD AVOID DODGEY SITUATIONS WITH BOIZ
AND GURLS SHOULD THINK CAREFULLY ABOU WAT BOI T TRUST N GIVE A CHANCE CUZ MOST BOIZ ARE DODGEY

SNM many sisters think that if a guy talks to you or is *Over friendly* is a good thing, but it isnt because thats when he looses all the respect for you.

yes i understand u walaal
gurls should realise dat many boiz hav hidden agenda'z if u know wat i mean