Boycott Valentine’s Day! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Daanyeer]

Source: Mensdaily
February 05, 2007
by Marc H. Rudov
Compelled to Give

It’s February again. This can mean only one thing: the dreaded, compulsory Valentine’s Day is just around the corner. If you forgot, fear not: the onslaught of TV and radio commercials will remind you and remind you and remind you. There is no escaping them, and they all share a common theme: women are entitled to receive; men are compelled to give. Nothing quite captures the essence of love like female entitlement.

Ask the typical woman to define romance. I’ll lay odds that she’ll describe a man buying and/or doing something for her, without a word about spoiling him. Why such narcissism? Simple. Most women are raised to be self-absorbed takers, and insecure men continue to tolerate and enable them.

Are men worthless? Only if they never demand fairness and reciprocity from women — and many men don’t. Valentine’s Day, and all of its pathetic rituals, represents the failure of men to stand up to women — who, ironically, don’t respect these eunuchs and don’t sexually crave them, either.

Visualize the annual V-Day ritual: women clucking around their office water coolers and late-morning Pilates classes in anticipation of receiving Vermont Teddy Bears or long-stem roses, while men are wringing their hands, dreading this day, resenting the pressure, wondering what, if anything, would please their wives and girlfriends. Why such anxiety? No man wants to end up in the proverbial doghouse without sex.

What a pathetic picture: women using sex as a weapon; men living in fear. The evidence of “romance heaven” is clear: alimony and child-support cash registers are ringing nonstop, the marriage rate is falling, infidelity is rampant, the out-of-wedlock birthrate is skyrocketing, and children — society’s future parents — are more dysfunctional and immature than ever.

Tribute to Legal Prostitution

What is Valentine’s Day, really? An annual tribute to legal prostitution. After all, traditional dating and marriage are the chief platforms of an age-old prostitutional bartering system through which women receive gifts, cash, bling, stock, cars, meals, homes, vacations, clothes, college tuition, business partnerships, and spa memberships in exchange for sex.

Accordingly, Valentine’s Day is the capstone of legal prostitution — its epitome — because of the inescapable, pervasive societal and commercial pressure to perform that it imposes on men. Think I’m crazy? On February 14th, will your woman withhold sex if you don’t roll out the red carpet for her? Think about it.

Men humiliate and emasculate themselves by worshipping women throughout the year. And, it’s totally unnecessary: women are more sexual than men, and men must learn how to turn the tables. But, the groveling is never so acute as on Valentine’s Day, when men pay premiums for flowers and dinners and baubles. For what? To avoid a fight? To get laid?

What’s worse is that women continue to crave and demand these gifts that they know, by definition, are given insincerely and begrudgingly. Nothing quite defines romance like perfunctory obligation, as men told me in a survey I conducted in 2005 (read “Why Men Dread Valentine’s Day”). Expected generosity, the crux of Valentine’s Day, is oxymoronic and moronic!

NoNonsense Bottom Line

Never, ever allow your woman to be the center of your relationship, as is too often the case. If that’s your unfortunate situation, you have no balls and no relationship. Valentine’s Day is the least of your troubles.

My solution to cure your Valentine’s Day blues is this: boycott it. That’s right, stay home. If February 13th and February 15th aren’t happy days for you, why would February 14th be an exception? If she insists on wasting money on February 14th, she’s a selfish, immature golddigger.

Here are three, quick rules to gauge your relationship’s temperature on Valentine’s Day:

If she’s a selfish taker who expects you to entertain her, dump her. Valentine’s Day is the perfect day to do that.
If your woman threatens to break up or withhold sex if you don’t take her out on this commercial occasion, end it with her on February 13th. Imagine what she’ll tell the girls at the office the next day!
If your “relationship” is so utterly boring and empty that you use February 14th as an excuse to pretend that all is well, break up ASAP — do yourselves a big favor.
Real romance is about spontaneity, choice, and reciprocity. Valentine’s Day, on the other hand, is contrived, commercial, unilateral nonsense. If you want to do something special and genuine, choose her birthday and other times when she least expects it. Anything done on Valentine’s Day is a joke.

Parting words: If you kiss a woman’s ass, at any time and for any reason, especially on Valentine’s Day, you can kiss your own ass — and the wallet attached to it — goodbye.

About the Author
Marc H. Rudov is an internationally recognized author of 40 articles and the books Under the Clitoral Hood: How to Crank Her Engine Without Cash, Booze, or Jumper CablesTM (ISBN 9780974501727), and The Man’s No-Nonsense Guide to Women: How to Succeed in Romance on Planet EarthTM (ISBN 0974501719).

Rudov’s books, articles, blog, and podcasts are available at http://TheNoNonsenseMan.com/.

Copyright © 2007 by Marc H. Rudov. All rights reserved.

[muslim-man]

LOL@valentines day is legalized prostitution.

Women shouldn't sell themselves down the drain by bartering a few trinkets for sex.

[Lil_Cutie..]

[quote="muslim-man"]LOL@valentines day is legalized prostitution.

Women shouldn't sell themselves down the drain by bartering a few trinkets for sex.[/quote]



Isn't that the whole nature of the kufaar-females opression? Not just for Vday, but everyday--Billboards everywhere ...?

[muslim-man]

Lil-Cutie,

And then they've the audacity to talk disrespectfully about Muslim women, interesting.

Whenever I think of white women, Anna Nicole comes to mind, yikes!

[AbdiWahab252]

Hey,

A few bucks ain't bad for getting laid all year around.

Trust me fellas, she will expect something !!!!

[Lil_Cutie..]

I have no idea how Muslim women are oppressed.Its interesting indeed! But kufaars are in every letter of the word. Its pressure for them to do such things and if they are alone on Vday are labelled and put down. People actually look for partners in times like this, seasonal-suduction?.Cakus.

Billboards make me sick nowadays, is it me--or are they getting more nude and X-Rated?

[muslim-man]

Lil-Cutie,

Everything is getting pushed to the limit these days, I am disgusted everytime I go to the malls and see 11 or 12 year old girls wearing skimpy clothes & make up. But then again, the Prophet (saw) already said that there will come a time when women will be clothed & naked at the same time!

[eyes-only]

Daanyeerow I'm starting to think you're against women.

I don't believe in Valentine's day but I love flowers and chocolates and a romantic movie....and nice gifts. Nothing wrong with that.

It is not good to celebrate Valentine's because it is a pagan thing and against my religion. But there is nothing wrong with being romantic and doing things for the person you love. A man who thinks there is something wrong with doing things for his woman and feels emasculated by her is not a real man. I bet the idiot who wrote that article is a sad lonely bigot who’s been single all his life.

[Lil_Cutie..]

MM--your right, the day is near. As for the little kids, can you blame them?Its a norm for them now, they see it everywhere and everyone doing it.If not then your odd. Ya Allah save us.

What I hate is when I say to someone ''I dont believe in Vday--I dont understand WHY I should celebrate it''(one particular day for love?)...I get my collegues and neighbours feeling sorry for me, sympathy.Loool.Wtf?
Many reckon Islam is boring..Life is narrow to being a virgin and taboo to commit adultary, forced marriage, millions of kids, locked up in a house & thats it end of my life, No time for love they reckon...

eyes only-- every girl and guy loves to be treated. Damn right!

[Sadaam_Mariixmaan]

JUST LIE TO MY REGULAR HOE SHE'LL GIVE SEX AND MADAX WIT WALAC

[muslim-man]

Lil-Cutie,

I read somewhere that the devil makes that which is beautiful ugly & that which is ugly beautiful, so I guess all the noble things such as honesty, piety, modesty & obediance are these days very wack!

This generation is on a path to colision, may Allah safe us from their fitnah, aamiin!

[kambuli]

I agree 100% with eyes only... Absolutely nothing wrong with being romantic with the person you love...Whatever it takes...

[Mr. Yungnfresh]

da hardest time on dem soft nuggaz pockets

[Daanyeer]

Eyes,

Where is ur EYES!!! Where did i say that i HATE women?? Am i not a son of a WOMAN??

U have UNDERSTOOD me WRONG. My MGM (Male Genital Mutiliation) ORDEAL which was EXCUTED by WOMEN( some was my IMMIDIATE realtives) would NEVER make me HATE a women.




'aan oyee albaabka ii xidha'



....I am the MASTER of my chest; i am the CAPTAIN of my fist.....


Ur Brother With Tears-Shedded Intellectual Glasses In S'net !!!!!


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