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Why are they so strict? Whenever you ask them to go out with your friends they say no they're eyalasook.

You have to respect ur parents no matter what.

And they don't have to respect you? Thats a terrible logic.

I know that you think your parents are blocking your fun, but trust me everything that your parents are telling you or are doing will make perfect sense to you someday. Your parents are just being parents, let them do their job. If your parents think those friends of yours are ciyal suuq, than probably they are, remember parents are never wrong.

I remember as a kid, my patents were really strict too, I wasn't allowed to spend the night over at anyone's house ,except family and walibo only certain family members at that, and among other things. My mother's favorite saying was "Someday you will understand". I thought she was being paranoid and mean at the time. Now since I have grown that phrase makes sense, the light bulb finally turned on and I understand what she meant.

[quote="herndonhomer"]Why are they so strict? Whenever you ask them to go out with your friends they say no they're eyalasook.[/quote]

time to study, time to work and time to play. my parents sat down with me during homework, my dad played basketball with us and organised games for us. i worked in the family business since i was 7 years old. your parents want to know your whereabouts 24/7.

No my mom is extra crazy she won't even let me go out with my somali friends.

Run away from home and live the free life! That'll teach them. But dont move in with Somalis because they will tell your mother your whereabouts....do you have any non Somali friends you could move in with.....Im telling you, once you do that....life will seem like one big nightclub...open bar and everything!

im sorry they do this but maybe you should explain it to them how you feel. they're just concerned probably.

[quote="herndonhomer"]No my mom is extra crazy she won't even let me go out with my somali friends.[/quote]

You mom's should hang you while your young now if your already calling her 'crazy' ..

dude I can take care of her for a small fee...............just shoot me a PM, when you decide to.