Women Who Propose to Men to Marry them ... ??

[AbdiWahab252]

Why is it that women are nowdays proposing more to men than they did in the generation of thier mothers ?

Whats with the guur talk after the 3rd date ?

The pressure builds up after the 90 day shuukansi period.

WARNING TO THE FELLAS:

1. Never go to Somalia as a single man or face the "pressure' to settle down. Take a picture of your g/friend or any chick that u know and say that she is your wifey & is a total biatch who would make your life hell if u married.

2. Never go alone to your g/friend's family or friends without having a freind. Too often, many men have been suckered/pressured into marriage when her family & friends surround you and apply CAR SALESMEN tatics to convince u to marry her. Having your friend will provide you with an unbiased, 2nd opinion.

3. ALWAYS USE PROTECTION: Too often many brother's have been trapped by the "I am pregnant clause" You should control your reproductive cycle by using a TROJAN 100% of the time no matter what. Pills, injections etc are all dependent on her taking it.

[HELWAA]

alla ninkana guur ba daba carari.................may allah give you a nice girl soon with alot of TAQWAH

[Ugaas Diini]

[quote]You should control your reproductive cycle by using a TROJAN 100% of the time no matter what. Pills, injections etc are all dependent on her taking it.[/quote]

You only get pressured to get married from a girl if she is kind of old. Young ones are not in any rush.....ok some are but it is insecure ones.

[AbdiWahab252]

UD:

Rer Kennedy Park are the worst.

The guur talk comes on the 2nd date.

What blows your mind is how the Xalimo has enough confidence in you to bring the topic up

[Daanyeer]

C/wahab'


What has PROMPTED u to MAKE this THJREAD? ( Don't get PANIC!!... i am not HYPNOSING u).




'aan oyee albaabka ii xidha'



....I am the MASTER of my chest; i am the CAPTAIN of my fist.....


Ur Brother With Tears-Shedded Intellectual Glasses In S'net !!!!!


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[Navy9]

...and what is wrong with that?

[zulaika]

[quote="AbdiWahab252"]Why is it that women are nowdays proposing more to men than they did in the generation of thier mothers ?

Whats with the guur talk after the 3rd date ?

The pressure builds up after the 90 day shuukansi period.

WARNING TO THE FELLAS:

1. Never go to Somalia as a single man or face the "pressure' to settle down. Take a picture of your g/friend or any chick that u know and say that she is your wifey & is a total biatch who would make your life hell if u married.

2. Never go alone to your g/friend's family or friends without having a freind. Too often, many men have been ****/pressured into marriage when her family & friends surround you and apply CAR SALESMEN tatics to convince u to marry her. Having your friend will provide you with an unbiased, 2nd opinion.

3. ALWAYS USE PROTECTION: Too often many brother's have been trapped by the "I am pregnant clause" You should control your reproductive cycle by using a TROJAN 100% of the time no matter what. Pills, injections etc are all dependent on her taking it.[/quote]

lol @ CAR SALESMEN tatics to convince u to marry her.

waryaa. dee meeshu pressure majidho. adigu hadaa bahalkaadi inanta ku taagtey, dee iyadana farta bey soo taagee sooner than u like for a wedding ring.

and as for # 3. welle farah's si wey u hadlaan, sikalane wey u dhaqmaan...if u get my drift.

[HELWAA]

ZULI....ninkani inoo ZINAH..ko noolaado bu raba.....for the rest of his life...subxaan

[AbdiWahab252]

Navy9, That talk should occur after the 18month mark of the relationship.

Helwa, Thanks for the dua.

zuleikha ...

[Gogarad]

[quote="AbdiWahab252"]

2. Never go alone to your g/friend's family or friends without having a freind. Too often, many men have been ****/pressured into marriage when her family & friends surround you and apply CAR SALESMEN tatics to convince u to marry her. Having your friend will provide you with an unbiased, 2nd opinion.
.[/quote]


First of all what are you doing going to your "g/friend's family to begin with? and which Somali family is that ee ku sow dhawayniya knowning you could be the next guy who wants to get under their daughter's panties under the "boyfriend" role ee shaah iyo caasriya ku kiinaya?

Ma ana waalan misa Xamar Cadey aya laga hesiiya?

[Navy9]

My God! 540 days!!! And here I am thinking 90 days were pretty long!

[AbdiWahab252]

Navy 9 U are nuts sis !

Gogorad .. Abaayo it ain't a Xamar thing. But a Somalis in the West thing. There will be a point at which some Xalimos want their family to check their Faraxs out. My friend was recently ambushed into marriage by his g/friend whom he was related to after visiting London where her family lives. Once surrounded by toolka, anything can happen.

[Dhaga Bacayl]

Hutu Boy,

We're talking about humans here not donkeys, am I correct?

When was the last time you went out with a girl?

[Navy9]

No, i am not nuts rather very practical. I don't believe in wasting valuable time, if I can't find what I am looking for in a person---no need for dragging for so long a dead thing!

[AbdiWahab252]

Navy9,

So if u met a nice guy & u found he met your requirements would u marry him if u knew him for less than 90days ?