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Re: They're asking for mehr I can't afford...
Posted: Fri Mar 01, 2013 4:24 pm
by MujahidAishah
Thats why u should learn what you are entitled to in marriage
Wats mine is mine wats urs we share
Re: They're asking for mehr I can't afford...
Posted: Fri Mar 01, 2013 4:26 pm
by Lillaahiya
^

Re: They're asking for mehr I can't afford...
Posted: Fri Mar 01, 2013 4:28 pm
by salool
AishahWaqooyi wrote:But qof iyo qimaha las isku xira if the person aint got much you ask for something reasonable but if they are rich u take them for wat they are worth. ..
If they're rich markaad la nooshahey ba ilfaha lo qaada, why ask for high meher when you've acces to his bank acount for the rest of ur marriage.

Re: They're asking for mehr I can't afford...
Posted: Fri Mar 01, 2013 4:29 pm
by Hyperactive
instead wedding expenses, pay for her mahr and tell her, it's up to her if she wants to waste it in wedding.
Re: They're asking for mehr I can't afford...
Posted: Fri Mar 01, 2013 4:32 pm
by MujahidAishah
Lil waa ila fahamtay
Get that dollar dollar
Because salool if u get divorced naag kala leh lacagta ... All u hve is ur meher thats your chance
Re: They're asking for mehr I can't afford...
Posted: Fri Mar 01, 2013 4:34 pm
by Lillaahiya
May, intaad la joogtid ka gur oo offshore accounts geli

Meherkana jeggo ka dhig, oo intu ku qabo aqal lacagtiisa ku dhis

Re: They're asking for mehr I can't afford...
Posted: Fri Mar 01, 2013 4:38 pm
by salool
Lillaahiya wrote:May, intaad la joogtid ka gur oo offshore accounts geli

Meherkana jeggo ka dhig, oo intu ku qabo aqal lacagtiisa ku dhis

Yup, take notes Aisha.

Re: They're asking for mehr I can't afford...
Posted: Fri Mar 01, 2013 4:47 pm
by MujahidAishah
Lillaahiya wrote:May, intaad la joogtid ka gur oo offshore accounts geli

Meherkana jeggo ka dhig, oo intu ku qabo aqal lacagtiisa ku dhis

ofcourse lacagta waa la dhaqan daar iyo dunyo baa laga samaysan

Re: They're asking for mehr I can't afford...
Posted: Fri Mar 01, 2013 4:48 pm
by AhlulbaytSoldier
Sare u kac ku yimid qiimaha Siilka

Re: They're asking for mehr I can't afford...
Posted: Fri Mar 01, 2013 4:49 pm
by salool
Cumar-Labasuul wrote:salool it's in our culture thats why, even if you tell women to ask for their mahr, they will say: ma waxaad rabta inuu i furo
Hada way ilbaxen naagihi esp the younger crew who grew up here or are born, mid kasta meherkeeda bisha hore bey ku xidha ninka inu siiyo.
Naagaha laftirkooda inay ninka wax macquul waydiistan ba fiican oo bixin karo.
Re: They're asking for mehr I can't afford...
Posted: Fri Mar 01, 2013 4:50 pm
by zulaika
salool wrote:AishahWaqooyi wrote:But qof iyo qimaha las isku xira if the person aint got much you ask for something reasonable but if they are rich u take them for wat they are worth. ..
If they're rich markaad la nooshahey ba ilfaha lo qaada, why ask for high meher when you've acces to his bank acount for the rest of ur marriage.

wow this is new...

Re: They're asking for mehr I can't afford...
Posted: Fri Mar 01, 2013 5:19 pm
by AgentOfChaos
OP: Xaliimos and their insane meher price is getting out of hand. You should probably sell one of your kidney.

Re: They're asking for mehr I can't afford...
Posted: Fri Mar 01, 2013 5:23 pm
by Skippa
Boon Xirsii said "raggu wuu qooqaa oo jeebkuu ka qooqaa"...and James Brown concurred when he said "paid the cost to be the Boss"...do what you must to rope her in bro
Re: They're asking for mehr I can't afford...
Posted: Fri Mar 01, 2013 6:08 pm
by Negritude
Uh, don't get married?
Re: They're asking for mehr I can't afford...
Posted: Fri Mar 01, 2013 6:25 pm
by waayeel101
salool wrote:Cumar, nimanka somalida badankooda kumay talagalin inay meher bixiyaan.Mid kasta wuxu iska oranaya haa wax kasta ka bacdi marka la yedhaah meherki keen bey isku dhex yaacan.Why say yes to somthing you cant afford marka ugu horaysa

wa runta xisabtaba uguma jirto, xita kuwa dinta yaqan.
koley wa deyn lahu leyahay hadu dhinto isaga oon iska bixin wa in laga bixya hadi kale wa lagu shaquuqin.
diintu way ogoshahay in marka la bixiyo(moqadam) ama kadib la bixiyo(mo'akhar) ama kolba qayb. lkn anu waxan aminsanahay in at least sanadka u horeya uu iska bixiyo.