Re: Marriage: The perfect on paper guy/girl
Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2014 4:11 pm
Jasmine is surely doing a weird kind of survey, yey faraha kaa daalinin
Jasmine is surely doing a weird kind of survey, yey faraha kaa daalinin
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Marriage: The perfect on paper guy/girl
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Jasmine is surely doing a weird kind of survey, yey faraha kaa daalinin
Re: Marriage: The perfect on paper guy/girl
Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2014 4:12 pm
Well it seems like the grown up and logical thing to do. The spark might be a hollywood creationAlshabaibe wrote:Like Shirib, I would compromise. Ideally there should be a good balance between his 'potential abo of my kids' trait and our 'chemistry'.
If he has good foundation/knowledge of deen, practices, educated, good fam, principled, dignified (plus all that good stuff) and we get along albeit without the 'spark', then its all good.
And anyway, people grow on each other... If you think about it, you didn't pick your family, you were born into them and learnt to adapt/work around their character.
Re: Marriage: The perfect on paper guy/girl
Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2014 4:13 pm
Adiga horta yareey keeping the cards too close to your chest waa suspect mays tiriDeeqaDagan wrote:
Jasmine is surely doing a weird kind of survey, yey faraha kaa daalinin
Re: Marriage: The perfect on paper guy/girl
Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2014 4:17 pm
I feel free, liberated, if you may, for contributing to this topic. Try it deeqa. Its therapeutic. 
Re: Marriage: The perfect on paper guy/girl
Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2014 4:21 pm
Chemistry isn't always instant, it can developJasmine6 wrote:Shirib wrote:Do you get along with them? Will they respect you and treat you well? Be a good spouse and parent? If all those answers are yes, go for it, the rest will come.
Really? As a guy I would have thought you'd be less willing to settle on the chemistry aspect.
i'm just trynna get laid
Re: Marriage: The perfect on paper guy/girl
Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2014 4:22 pm
Relationship topics shall set you free
Re: Marriage: The perfect on paper guy/girl
Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2014 4:23 pm
Shirib wrote:Chemistry isn't always instant, it can developJasmine6 wrote:Shirib wrote:Do you get along with them? Will they respect you and treat you well? Be a good spouse and parent? If all those answers are yes, go for it, the rest will come.
Really? As a guy I would have thought you'd be less willing to settle on the chemistry aspect.
i'm just trynna get laid
Ala ba'ayey!
Shirib you ruined the "perfect father of my children" image
Re: Marriage: The perfect on paper guy/girl
Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2014 4:25 pm
^^ How does that ruin it?
now that i said it, should i delete that comment?
now that i said it, should i delete that comment?
Re: Marriage: The perfect on paper guy/girl
Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2014 4:28 pm
Is this the watchman or mid kale jas
Re: Marriage: The perfect on paper guy/girl
Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2014 4:31 pm
Shirib wrote:^^ How does that ruin it?
now that i said it, should i delete that comment?
Isn't it creepy to get it on with someone you don't have chemistry with...then I remember you are a guy, never mind
Re: Marriage: The perfect on paper guy/girl
Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2014 4:33 pm
The watchman was the opposite innit. Beautiful man with little promise otherwise starting with his cadaannimoAishahWaqooyi wrote:Is this the watchman or mid kale jas
Horta if I may, do you think it's true or an exaggeration when people say you never know a person until you live with them? Some people then go to the extreme and get married within a few months of knowing each other. Is that wise in your opinion?
Re: Marriage: The perfect on paper guy/girl
Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2014 4:33 pm
Re: Marriage: The perfect on paper guy/girl
Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2014 4:38 pm
lol, you don't need chemistry for thatJasmine6 wrote:Shirib wrote:^^ How does that ruin it?
now that i said it, should i delete that comment?
Isn't it creepy to get it on with someone you don't have chemistry with...then I remember you are a guy, never mind
So do I still have the "perfect father of my children" image
Re: Marriage: The perfect on paper guy/girl
Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2014 4:40 pm
You're starting to catch onJasmine6 wrote:Well it seems like the grown up and logical thing to do. The spark might be a hollywood creationAlshabaibe wrote:Like Shirib, I would compromise. Ideally there should be a good balance between his 'potential abo of my kids' trait and our 'chemistry'.
If he has good foundation/knowledge of deen, practices, educated, good fam, principled, dignified (plus all that good stuff) and we get along albeit without the 'spark', then its all good.
And anyway, people grow on each other... If you think about it, you didn't pick your family, you were born into them and learnt to adapt/work around their character.
Re: Marriage: The perfect on paper guy/girl
Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2014 4:41 pm
HaaheyJasmine6 wrote:Relationship topics shall set you free
