question to the ladies here...

[ElfRuler]

^That is why I plan on having RULES at home and a CHART on the wall. It will be very manageable for me

I respect your optimistic view, but I'm just wondering does your mother work outside the house and inside the house. Or do you know of any female with children that works outside the house and is a housewife?

I would love nothing more than to become a pastry chef and marry a sous chef ........I might just do it!

[ElfRuler]

ElfRuler Don't attempt to change the natural order of things

You can't stand in the same river twice

[OliveOil]

Okay Ismahan, understood




Zulaikha, abaayo I'm getting a Cat scan done soon inshAllah...doctor thinks something else is wrong with but needs to be sure. I hope I'm fine . Thnx for asking

[OliveOil]

^That is why I plan on having RULES at home and a CHART on the wall. It will be very manageable for me

I respect your optimistic view, but I'm just wondering does your mother work outside the house and inside the house. Or do you know of any female with children that works outside the house and is a housewife?

I would love nothing more than to become a pastry chef and marry a sous chef ........I might just do it!

I think I wrote that earlier...yes she does and has always been on her feet!!!

[fatimazahra]

As long as she takes care of herself, takes care of our children (makes sure they eat well, dress well, finish up their school work etc) and respects me by listening to me when I talk to her, I don't mind cooking and cleaning for her. A good mother and a good wife deserves to be pampered.

cooking and cleaning a'int a big deal. in Nairobi you will get shaqaalo and you pay her less than 50 dollars a month n she does all da cleaning

[salool]

Ismahan, wow!

Dumarka Reer Waqooyiga oo fikirada Zulaika leh waa waxaan ba ku nacay! Ilaahay kuweena caag buu ka dhigay.

Reer Waqooyi women Ismahan, not you. They need help walahi.

Kani ilayen wa iska sagagar qasaacad kaluun ah ku so koray, lax waaxid!

[BlackVelvet]

I think I read the phrase "maid with benefits"

[daiman]

I would cook for him as long as love him, but when that love or infatuation comes to an end ( and am sure it will at some point) then he would have to buy his food.
as for cleanning, i would make him do the cleaning.

[ofafrique]

Well yeah, lol. That's part of the job.

[Saraxnow]

Cali,

What?. Me, offended?. Sagagar,kaluun iyo qasaacado...Sit down son.