Ladies: What does it take to make u 2nd wife

[Twist]

Last think a "kept woman" wants is a child.

Do the children have to be his flesh and blood? I am sure he can be a father to many children who need in one in their lives.

He can try to buy a young bride from Africa is he is well off.

Wanna buy one?

I am greedy. Is there 'buy one get one free' bargain?

[BlackVelvet]

It comes down to why you got married in the first place. If it was to breed then yes, once you find out that the objectives cannot be met then it would be wise to move on.

[SummerRain]

It comes down to why you got married in the first place. If it was to breed then yes, once you find out that the objectives cannot be met then it would be wise to move on.

Majority of Somalis get hitched to reproduce.

[PrinceDaadi]

kaalay maxaa dadka dhan u diidanyihiin islaan labaad waa yaabee?

[Tuushi]

^^^ No one wants to feel like a second best or that they arent good enough.

But I am sure there are some women who might be up for the idea.Personally never met any yet.

[SummerRain]

Tuushi

It's all in the perspective though. The second can be the new best.... out with the old , in with the new

[Tuushi]

That will make the old one feel like shit tho.

There is no winning without eliniating one or the other.Unless they dont know abt each other.Which i think is a better option.What she doesnt know doesnt hurt her situation.

[PrinceDaadi]

^^^ No one wants to feel like a second best or that they arent good enough.

But I am sure there are some women who might be up for the idea.Personally never met any yet.

Laakin waxaan aqanaa islaamo cadadaa ka badan oo number two noqday doodna kama taagnayn besides trend waxaa uu u move garaynooyaa in the whole thing caadi noqato, i had the privilege of working in a business that deals with a large number men society and 2/3 of those guys had more than one wife so these guls who became second wives are second best?

[SummerRain]

That will make the old one feel like shit tho.

There is no winning without eliniating one or the other.Unless they dont know abt each other.Which i think is a better option.What she doesnt know doesnt hurt her situation.

Yes, she would. But no woman should go into a marriage thinking it will never happen to her. I know woman who found out their husbands took another wife and choice to stay in the marriage for their own reasons. I just can't imagine the strength it takes for a woman to make that decision and what really happens to her relationship with him after such betrayal.
LOL? what she doesn't know doesn't hurt her....how can a marriage be hidden? that impossible.

[Tuushi]

^^^ No one wants to feel like a second best or that they arent good enough.

But I am sure there are some women who might be up for the idea.Personally never met any yet.

Laakin waxaan aqanaa islaamo cadadaa ka badan oo number two noqday doodna kama taagnayn besides trend waxaa uu u move garaynooyaa in the whole thing caadi noqato, i had the privilege of working in a business that deals with a large number men society and 2/3 of those guys had more than one wife so these guls who became second wives are second best?

I am not saying every second feels second best but the potential was there.
Why did these men wanted a second wife? How many of these second wives marry knowing the guy had another wife?

Summer.Such strong women.Would it make any difference if she knew his intention to marry another woman? Would that still be considered betrayal? From what i understand,unless stated in a contract,he doesnt have to even tell his wife.

[BlackVelvet]

It comes down to why you got married in the first place. If it was to breed then yes, once you find out that the objectives cannot be met then it would be wise to move on.

Majority of Somalis get hitched to reproduce.

It's strange. I always thought the only reason to get married to someone is because you want to spend the rest of your life with them and I thought everyone except gold-diggers thought that way too.