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Mr. Yungnfresh wrote:Cooking and cleaning is a woman's job, point blank. I'm not talking putting peanut butter & jelly on bread or throwing out a wrapper, lakiin anything you gotta turn the stove on for and heavy duty cleaning is for a woman. The same way women look at their man when something needs fixing or bills need paying. Play your position and no one gets hurt (bruised ego when family/friends come over and wonder what the fuck is going on in that household and why the man is wearing an apron instead of the pants in the relationship )

Perfect_Order wrote:Waraa Murax I had the same experience walle

I remember when I first arrived in ethiopia, I had some white t's I wanted to wash, I seen how the girls washed with the bin so I was like ok I can do this, and I was way to shy to ask them to clean it. I grab my shirts out the room and I'm bout to go out when two of my older cousins jump up, shocked like wtf, and ask me what do you think your doing, I was like trying to wash this, he goes NOOOO and is like don't ever do that, he goes straight up that is womens work. He's like just put it in the corner of the house outside and the girls will get to it loool. Next thing I know it's on my bed folded and pressed.

And the girls used to be like hes one of those guys that will get abused by his wife lool. I came back straight up with their mentality and used to get on my sisters case for doing the same shit I was used too. lol

shaab_ wrote:

Mr. Yungnfresh wrote:Cooking and cleaning is a woman's job, point blank. I'm not talking putting peanut butter & jelly on bread or throwing out a wrapper, lakiin anything you gotta turn the stove on for and heavy duty cleaning is for a woman. The same way women look at their man when something needs fixing or bills need paying. Play your position and no one gets hurt (bruised ego when family/friends come over and wonder what the fuck is going on in that household and why the man is wearing an apron instead of the pants in the relationship )

the best cooks are actually men

Murax wrote:

Perfect_Order wrote:Waraa Murax I had the same experience walle

I remember when I first arrived in ethiopia, I had some white t's I wanted to wash, I seen how the girls washed with the bin so I was like ok I can do this, and I was way to shy to ask them to clean it. I grab my shirts out the room and I'm bout to go out when two of my older cousins jump up, shocked like wtf, and ask me what do you think your doing, I was like trying to wash this, he goes NOOOO and is like don't ever do that, he goes straight up that is womens work. He's like just put it in the corner of the house outside and the girls will get to it loool. Next thing I know it's on my bed folded and pressed.

And the girls used to be like hes one of those guys that will get abused by his wife lool. I came back straight up with their mentality and used to get on my sisters case for doing the same shit I was used too. lol

I know what You're talking about. Man maybe this is a OGadeen thing, cuz My cousins who were in the house doing this were OG's. Its like as soon as You walk out the door, they all scramble to Where You sleep, make Your bed, wash Your clothes, etc. Everyday I was wearing a freshly washed pair of draws, Ilahay khayr ha siiyo, waan u duceeyey Walle, lol I felt like I was in heavan Man. Laakin on a serious tip though, if a Wife does do that kinda stuff for Her Hubby, ofcourse the Man will appreciate it, try to do everything He can for Her, and never leave Her..A Raaliyo

ciyaal_warta wrote: marmarsiyo miyaa qoraxeey xarfaanki nairobi kusoo jeclaati maa ku qabo rabtaaa cml

Rightwing wrote:Why on earth QORAXEY goes to shops all the way to Africa and pick an elitarate man who will brush his teeth in the street + in public HAMAANSI and XAAKO TUFIS, when she can get here educated, ambitious and energetic men like emperior?

surrender wrote:
thats what i used to think too, but is not tru. Somali women/girls from here are going back to Africa, not just Somalia, but countries like Masar, Kenya, Tanzania and ethiopia and marrying brothers from there. i got two friends who have done that so far. ayagaana soo dhoofsada nimankooda. maasha'Allah.

hyperactive wrote:qoraxeey find me some one gets me american citizen!!
it's win win situation for both of us

hyperactive wrote:maya qoraxeey america ka fi'an ban maqlay.lol