Must ask questions - Courtship
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- AbdiWahab252
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Re: Must ask questions - Courtship
1. Are you married ?
2. Have u had relations with my friends or male relatives ?
3. Do you have any kids ?
4. Are you gainfully employed ?
5. Your level of education ?
6. Age ? (add + 5 yrs to her number)
7. Where are your family based ?
2. Have u had relations with my friends or male relatives ?
3. Do you have any kids ?
4. Are you gainfully employed ?
5. Your level of education ?
6. Age ? (add + 5 yrs to her number)
7. Where are your family based ?
- Twist
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Re: Must ask questions - Courtship
Can't wait to see the answers of these questions (though I already know BlackVeminist wont answer any of them correctly).AbdiWahab252 wrote:1. Are you married ?
2. Have u had relations with my friends or male relatives ?
3. Do you have any kids ?
4. Are you gainfully employed ?
5. Your level of education ?
6. Age ? (add + 5 yrs to her number)
7. Where are your family based ?

- Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE
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Re: Must ask questions - Courtship
How much do you make
How many hours do you work
what is definition of love
do you pray
How many kids do you wanna have
Have you ever had stds
do you have healthy insurance
do u know how to cook
Have you ever..cheated
How long was your longest relationship
What is ur view of polygamy
any addictions?
How important is physical appearance to you
Do you work out..if yes how many days
do you know how to paint nails..lol
How many hours do you work
what is definition of love
do you pray
How many kids do you wanna have
Have you ever had stds
do you have healthy insurance
do u know how to cook
Have you ever..cheated
How long was your longest relationship
What is ur view of polygamy
any addictions?
How important is physical appearance to you
Do you work out..if yes how many days
do you know how to paint nails..lol
- BlackVelvet
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Re: Must ask questions - Courtship
Twist I will have you know that even if 5 years are added I'd still have one over the guy.
Adiga su'aalaha awey? Ama maxaad ku ekeysa how soon can you start?

Isn't that an awkward/socially unacceptable question to ask? Strange that "have you ever had an std seems like a normal question"Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE wrote:How much do you make
- Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE
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Re: Must ask questions - Courtship
Lol not in my world...he better make over six figures
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Re: Must ask questions - Courtship
Just thinking about it is making me cringe but do you know how to paint nails and more interestingly would you paint my nails, that I might be tempted to ask 
Re: Must ask questions - Courtship
1. I want nothing to do with your friends, co-workers and will only see your family during religious holidays such as Eid or family graduations. Kapeesh?
2. I require that there be vanilla ice cream in the freezer til the day I die. Will you be able to make sure it will always be in the freezer?
3. I won't require sex too often but I will expect it at any time. Will you object to random play?
4. I ask that you save $500 every month and put it into an emergency fund in case of unemployment or emergency. Are you capable of doing that?
5. I need to be alone for around 3 hours per day to use the internet, to relax, to watch TV or to just reflect. Are you willing to leave me alone?
2. I require that there be vanilla ice cream in the freezer til the day I die. Will you be able to make sure it will always be in the freezer?
3. I won't require sex too often but I will expect it at any time. Will you object to random play?
4. I ask that you save $500 every month and put it into an emergency fund in case of unemployment or emergency. Are you capable of doing that?
5. I need to be alone for around 3 hours per day to use the internet, to relax, to watch TV or to just reflect. Are you willing to leave me alone?
- BlackVelvet
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Re: Must ask questions - Courtship
Titanium wrote:Are you willing to leave me alone?
Re: Must ask questions - Courtship
Marriage shouldn't mean an end to privacy. In fact, your privacy should be strengthened. Otherwise, your marriage might fail.
I know a couple who sleep in different rooms. At first, it seemed to have defeated the purpose of marriage but it has its advantages. The initial reason was because the man reportedly snores like a cow but he is now loving the situation more than the wifey.
I know a couple who sleep in different rooms. At first, it seemed to have defeated the purpose of marriage but it has its advantages. The initial reason was because the man reportedly snores like a cow but he is now loving the situation more than the wifey.
- BlackVelvet
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Re: Must ask questions - Courtship
I am in agreement. The ladies of SNet (and a few of the guys) discussed this very topic a few months back and the conclusion was that a long distance marriage is the way to go. See each other every 3-6 months and even then sleep in separate bedrooms 
- GeoSeven
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Re: Must ask questions - Courtship
That is anything but marriage.BlackVelvet wrote: See each other every 3-6 months and even then sleep in separate bedrooms
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Re: Must ask questions - Courtship
Personally, my proposal was to have a chain stuck on the wall with enough give to visit the bathroom and the kitchen but majority wins and that was the go'aanka la gaarey.
Re: Must ask questions - Courtship
BlackVelvet wrote:Personally, my proposal was to have a chain stuck on the wall with enough give to visit the bathroom and the kitchen but majority wins and that was the go'aanka la gaarey.
Space
- 1nemansquad
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Re: Must ask questions - Courtship
Lol. interesting thread yet again. Some of the questions seem like a business proposal than that of marriage.
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Re: Must ask questions - Courtship
You folks are not serious 
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