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Any of you seen this video?

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a while ago abu khdija came to a somali sister who was a single mother, he told her he had a revert brother for her who was a good brother, worked hard, studied hard and was part of the rightous salafi masjid, the sister was relectant and she didnt want to rush into this as she was going bk to somalia for first time, she was brought up here after the war and she never seen the country and she was all excited of going back to her mother land.

But abu khadija started applying his wicked tricks, first sending out "salafi" sisters to put presure on her, then whisprings among the women that she was racist, and then came the best one she was starting to be off the "manhaj". The sister didnt have no choice but to accept.

Now the least thing you would think for a group of people, who operate a marriage Bureau, is to check the sort of people they introducing to the sisters. Their backgrounds, wether they have a history of violence, drugs, abuse and the rest of it.

the sister says she was happy with her man, he would take them out and be nice and kind to them and do what anormal husband would do.

now she started to get worried when her little son become quite and scared to be touched, then one day she walked in to his bedroom and her worst nighmore was in front of her.. i cant repeat but it was horrible, a grown man with a child..he ran off she called the police, when she was interviewed she didnt even know his name, he was introduced to her as abu-abdullah, and thats how she become to know him.

she was asked if she knew of his history and she told the police of how she become his wife. abu khadija was arrested and first he denied all knowledge of it, then the forms was brought up and he said ooh he never checked becuz of the good characters of the brother.

Then he turned on the sister saying it was her fault she should have seen the signs, and if she was a good sister this wouldnt of happend to her and basicly he was telling others to distance themselfs and the masjid from her, she was damaged goods...

The police quized him further but he got away again. but better now he takes the money of the police and works for them...i didnt want to say anything on the main forum coz it makes me sick...i left out few details coz they not good for the eyes..
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wallahi this would never happen to a pakistani or an arab,kurdish,turkish or any other ethinicity. i bet you any money her parents said dont marry him he is not our kind doesnt speak our language doesnt have out culture but she still married him. why because somali girls dont value their parents opinion. so the oppression and sexual violence that boy suffered lies squarely with the mother. because she refused the advice of her parents her elders and now she has a raped boy. and allah knows best but. BOTTOM LINE ITS THE MOTHERS FAULT. these salafist solely target somali girls why because they know somali girls are litterally on their own dispite having 50 family members near by. in the every other muslim community the girls value the other peoples opinion. it seems for our girls valueing the elders opinion is sign of backwardness and stupidness. this is the result. stick with us abayoyall. you know us.

wallahi her prevous husband must be sad. because even he has no say in her future once he devorces her.


you reap what you sow. May allah grow that boy into a strong healthy boy. allahayo kheyr sii willkas iyo cafimaad.
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Somali girls need to step being so cheap walahay! The have become a prize that every revert gets as soon as he reverts. How can they sign an eternal contract aith a revert whose background they dont know? Such a shame!
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I don't know how Somali men especially those in Europe(UK) attend mosques. I would be too embarrass to show my face near any mosque knowing that halimos are in waitlist waiting for the next convert. :lol:

Anyway, my heart bleeds for that child. :(
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It is just not a UK issue, but all over the west whether it is Canada or USA. Many Somali single mothers are desperate bunch and will go with anything
that walks.
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:wtf:
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Most likely an old story which isn't confirmed, but like saacjabshe said, you girls shouldn't risk being ostracized by the community for an ex-convict who could leave you hurt and broken tomorrow.
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Ducaysane209 wrote:It is just not a UK issue, but all over the west whether it is Canada or USA. Many Somali single mothers are desperate bunch and will go with anything
that walks.
You're right, its not just in the UK, but what's happening in UK epidemic.
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Feel sorry for the child if this story is true. :(


Somali men avoid to marry single mothers like the plague, and then complain when those women marry an ajnabi. :lupe:
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war uduceeya masakiinta instead of gossiping about her :ufdup:
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I am so glad that I follow the Qaddriyah Culema and avoid consorting with Surwalgab !!!
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Shaqadeey ii shoorkeey mii! :Shrug:
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metamorphosis wrote:Somali girls need to step being so cheap walahay! The have become a prize that every revert gets as soon as he reverts. How can they sign an eternal contract aith a revert whose background they dont know? Such a shame!
The lost souls must return to the right Dariiqa, and follow our Ahlu Sunnah Wal Jameeca culema :up:
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Re: Any of you seen this video?

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There are boys and girls who are sexually assaulted by their Somali step parent and/or relatives. Seems like Somalis only recognize pedophilia outside our community.

p.s. Not that this case isn't unfortunate and disgusting but what I find even more bizarre is that no one bothered mentioning the sheykh who supported the rapist.
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Disgusting.


If you're going to have an arranged marriage at least do it through your parents or even your tol why on earth would you trust some random person who doesn't know you to judge who has a "good character" on your behalf. She's a nacasad for allowing herself to be bullied into a marriage.

Btw I hope this is fake, because it does make the masjid look like a twisted version of "religious" mean girls.
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