Qudbo Siro Rampant In Nairobi Kenya

[zingii]

http://www.bbc.co.uk/somali/maqal_iyo_m ... diga.shtml

[Tuushi]

It is the qudbo siro capital.

Dan ayaa dumarkaas kuqasabtey i believe.

[zingii]

It is the qudbo siro capital.

Dan ayaa dumarkaas kuqasabtey i believe.

That's how the lady interviewed put it.

5 year long qudbo siro with 1kid.

[Tuushi]

I doubt she even wanted that one child.He/she was probably an accident.No sane woman will have children in qudbo siro guur.


From my understanding,it is a convenient arrangement i think and it is mostly likely a temporary situation.The man supports her financially year round and they live together a fraction of the year.

[AbdiWahab252]

It beats Zina

[Vivacious]

I just don't understand why people do it. May the ladies who agree to this come to their senses.

[AbdiWahab252]

I just don't understand why people do it. May the ladies who agree to this come to their senses.

Not really. Say you are a guy in a town for a short term for say less than 1 year. You have needs and its just a matter of time before you desire the company of a woman. You can go either zina or get a wife. Sadly, some of us are in POW (prisoners of women) back in Qurbaha and so can't be caught with a 2nd wife and so the need for discretion.

[zingii]

I just don't understand why people do it. May the ladies who agree to this come to their senses.

Not really. Say you are a guy in a town for a short term for say less than 1 year. You have needs and its just a matter of time before you desire the company of a woman. You can go either zina or get a wife. Sadly, some of us are in POW (prisoners of women) back in Qurbaha and so can't be caught with a 2nd wife and so the need for discretion.

The hommie in the audio lauded your concern.
He was in qudbo siro for 2 years before wife found out.
She gave him ultimatum (either me and ur kids or her).
He chose his kids and 1st wife over the 2nd one.

[AbdiWahab252]

Zingi,

Never marry a woman that hails from your qabiil or even from your region.

[zingii]

Zingi,

Never marry a woman that hails from your qabiil or even from your region.

I did and I did.

Now i dont know how i am gonna pull it off.

[AbdiWahab252]

Zingii,

You are done for ! You should have done one with a woman who just knows you as Zingi and he is Darood not one who knows your abtirsi Prepare for the worse.

[Vivacious]

Abdiwahab either be a man enough to let the world including your first wife know about her or else control your temptations. If you can't do any of that then may the Almighty help you.

But what excuse is given for those single men who don't have a wife yet proceed with the qudbo siro?

[AbdiWahab252]

Deqa,

It is like an temporary to permanent position. You try it out and are evaluated before being considered being hired as a permanent staff member.

[Vivacious]

^ I Will never understand why first wife qudbo siro loogu guursan waayay horta.

Your point may explaine the second wife qudbo siro sababta loogu guursado. In my point I believe no one should go through it, specially gabdhaha. Sharaf iyo sumcad mid ku guursado oo aanan qarin ma waaynayaan.

[gurey25]

rampant in dubai as well.
nearly every somali businessman in dubai has more than one wife.
i know one that has 4 wives 2 with him in dubai, 1 in europe and 1 in somalia.