Blind dates!

[BlackVelvet]

This could work but watch how you do it, it could backfire on you seeing as you like her for her intellect

lol! i didn't see the intellect twist in the discussion! I responded to the original question. Talking about intellect, i know many guys are intimated by smart and successful women.

personally, I'd rather call an escort than date an airhead!

Is it such a shock, an unexpected discovery that a woman can be smart?

A friend of mine told me once: I want a woman who is smart and ambitious...just not as smart or as ambitious as me. Quote of the century for me

[waryaa]

bl - there's a typo in my post - should've read "intimidated by"

I think it is all about power and control. I watched a TV documentary on divorce where they concluded having the wife make more money is a recipe for a breakup because the husband loses his status as "provider" while the wife demands more work around the house from him. It is a pychological defeat for men. The study concentrated on California middle class residents.

[Basra-]

Half,

U r hilarious. Usually, i tell people who go to dates to be 'themselves', in your case Half, --please DONT. Your problem is u r the ultimate geek. You r too smart for your own good.(and others i am sure) You mumble and mumble and mumble---2 hours into the mubling u finally notice the yawns of your tortured audience. Explore your animalistic part of you for a change. Start by grabbing your balls.

[gurey25]

dude..
simply treat her like anyone else, nothing special..
only suckers treat thier date especially a blind date like its a date...

think of it as hanging out with some new friends...

you will find out that it works out very well that way.

[Navy9]

Anybody been on these things? A friend is setting me up with some out of town trick he keeps insisting I should meet.

Flowers? Or a simple hand-shake? Who hell invented this shit anyway?

Good luck

[HalfDzed]

I've never dated anything other than my hand so I can't really give you field advice but I'll say what common sense dictates; you probably should never, in any case, ever give flowers to a girl on the first date. A handshake should do. If the girl is Somali or Black then she's going to be the one doing all the talking so all you have to do is wait it out until the date is over, give it an hour and she'll text you. Game over.

jack of all trades lol! admitting dating ONLY fardoza and giving advice on dating other humans

I'd say make an excuse this time and meet her some other time casually without your friend's involvement. Trust me, she will be more interested in u if you call off the first date. Take my word ( underscore )

No, can't do that. She's in town for a summit, got here on Thursday, leaving next week. My friend is her cousin and has been talking about her for weeks, long before she came here. Funny thing is her dad is my childhood pediatrician in Somalia. But, I don't know her, have no idea what she looks like, haven't spoken to her yet either. All I know of her is her name and what she does for a living. For the first time in my adult life, I've no clue about what I'm getting myself in to. It ought to be an interesting experience.

Lol@Basra.

Thanks everyone!

[Basra-]

Half


Three advices.


1. Let her talk.

2. Dont bring up your arab country living experience.

3 Have Fun.

[Siciid85]

Casho, Filin, Ciyaar in that order. Worked for mankind for many many years. Why tamper with it?

No flowers But be prepared man. Look sharp and cool and don't talk much. Be rationale and be yourself. Girls can notice if you're fake. Just be who you are. If she rolls with that, then all is good. if not, there always other ones out there.

Good luck mayn.

[HalfDzed]

Siciid, thank you sxb.


Basra,

Ok.



Anything else?

[qoraxeey]

Anybody been on these things? A friend is setting me up with some out of town trick he keeps insisting I should meet.

Flowers? Or a simple hand-shake? Who hell invented this shit anyway?

yeah buy flowers and all.. Because she will remember you then !! Dont go adigoo gacan marann

and if you two get along well

then marry her

u need a wife fast !! u are just getting older .. iyo mar walba women sections baad ku jirtaa

ok walaale .. Baal good luuck .. waan ku so duceyn

[HalfDzed]

Lol@qoraxeey. Your little duco might've done its trick. We had a blast tonight.

I'm seeing her again soon.

[qoraxeey]

Lol@qoraxeey. Your little duco might've done its trick. We had a blast tonight.

I'm seeing her again soon.

really .. lool .. u r welcom markaas

heedhee arooska ma ka so qeyb gali kara .. ha-dhoowdii

[shitguy]

I've never dated anything other than my hand so I can't really give you field advice but I'll say what common sense dictates; you probably should never, in any case, ever give flowers to a girl on the first date. A handshake should do. If the girl is Somali or Black then she's going to be the one doing all the talking so all you have to do is wait it out until the date is over, give it an hour and she'll text you. Game over.

jack of all trades lol! admitting dating ONLY fardoza and giving advice on dating other humans

I'd say make an excuse this time and meet her some other time casually without your friend's involvement. Trust me, she will be more interested in u if you call off the first date. Take my word ( underscore )

No, can't do that. She's in town for a summit, got here on Thursday, leaving next week. My friend is her cousin and has been talking about her for weeks, long before she came here. Funny thing is her dad is my childhood pediatrician in Somalia. But, I don't know her, have no idea what she looks like, haven't spoken to her yet either. All I know of her is her name and what she does for a living. For the first time in my adult life, I've no clue about what I'm getting myself in to. It ought to be an interesting experience.

Lol@Basra.

Thanks everyone!

Waryaa caadi ma'ahan Wallahi . He is given you the best advice by far My only addition to that is, switch off the phone on the said date and time. let her go back to whatever hole she crawled from, (doesn't matter wether she will be there for a week or she never comes back) wait for a week or two and call her out of the blue. arrange to go see her on another date, call the shots from there believe me there is 80% chances of you getting what you are after (xalal/ xaram) than waiting for her on date table with a flower in hand . Emeperior aya horey ku daaley taas

[Basra-]

[quote="HalfDzed"]Lol@qoraxeey. Your little duco might've done its trick. We had a blast tonight.

I'm seeing her again soon. [/quote]

[Murax]

Halfdazed,





Somehow I remembered that scene from Friday, Where Smokey thinks He's marrying a girl who told Him She looked like Janet Jackson but when He met Her She was like 400 lbs