Virginity; guys does it matter to you?

[revolter]

Let us say you were seeing this girl for 3 to 5 years and finally the time came for marriage and all these years she swore on you that she is a virgin...On that special night you found out...she wasn't...in other words you didn't get to pop the cherry....So how would u react?

for me...walahi...i take that garbage bag n put all her clothes in there...call a taxi n send her to her mom's house...n by morning she is getting her three dhalaaqs....

[FAH1223]

yep, it is VERY important

but if a farax isn't a virgin, he doesn't deserve a virgin xalimo either

you remain chaste, your woman will be chaste insha allah

[DANGIRL]

[quote="FAH1223"]

if a farax isn't a virgin, he doesn't deserve a virgin xalimo either

[/quote]

Exactly!

[musika man]

[quote="FAH1223"]yep, it is VERY important

but if a farax isn't a virgin, he doesn't deserve a virgin xalimo either

you remain chaste, your woman will be chaste insha allah[/quote]


^^^

one reason i will neva ask a girl, if she is virgin or not cause i'm not. what happens after we get married is more important what happened when we even dont know each other.

[Advocatar]

It depends sxb, if I accept her as she is basically a second hand wife, then no problem, but if she lied to me and I wasted my virginity on her, I will kill her.

[Gedo_Boy]

I don't know, do all girls bleed the first time?


I would be more devastated by the fact that she lied.

[revolter]

[quote="FAH1223"]yep, it is VERY important

but if a farax isn't a virgin, he doesn't deserve a virgin xalimo either

you remain chaste, your woman will be chaste insha allah[/quote]

Bravo....War that night I will make sure I place a white sheet on that bed...If i don't see a dot of blood...she is gone sxb....I don't think women understand this...but for us guys it means a lot to us...this is one of the times when men show their manhood....

[Gamadid.]

^ LOL, Gedo-Boy, you actually seem to be crying right now

[revolter]

[quote="Gedo_Boy"]I don't know, do all girls bleed the first time?


I would be more devastated by the fact that she lied.[/quote]

Let me tell you 2 common excuses....oh i used tampots n it must have popped my hymen...tampots are cotton and can't reach that far....the other one is i popped it while i was in the gym exercising...

[musika man]

[quote="revolter"][quote="FAH1223"]yep, it is VERY important

but if a farax isn't a virgin, he doesn't deserve a virgin xalimo either

you remain chaste, your woman will be chaste insha allah[/quote]

Bravo....War that night I will make sure I place a white sheet on that bed...If i don't see a dot of blood...she is gone sxb....I don't think women understand this...but for us guys it means a lot to us...this is one of the times when men show their manhood....[/quote]

^^^

she can put fake blood on the bedsheets. then you will feel like a man.

[QansaGabeyle]

Lol@white sheet. How about you find out before you actually get married to her. That would save you a lot of money, time and prevent you from having regrets.

[Gedo_Boy]

Gamadid,



for me the problem would be the lie.....because if she tells me in discreet confidence: "No I am not a virgin, there was this boy when I was 19 and ......" that is something......nobody is perfect and things happen but the fact that she had the integrity to be honest about it and tell me straightforward then I might still marry her b/c I know nobody is perfect..........not even GB 8)

But if she lies, you don't know what she is lying about? Was she a stripper? Did she have mass orgies? Did she do a film? Was she the neighborhood love? That's what is too scary to fathom.

And if she lies to you about that, then when will she decide to be honest and decide to lie.

You just don't know what you are getting.


Before I married her, I would ask very honestly and tell her that what she says is between me & her and I would never ever tell anybody either way. But I just gotta know

[revolter]

[quote="musika man"][quote="revolter"][quote="FAH1223"]yep, it is VERY important

but if a farax isn't a virgin, he doesn't deserve a virgin xalimo either

you remain chaste, your woman will be chaste insha allah[/quote]

Bravo....War that night I will make sure I place a white sheet on that bed...If i don't see a dot of blood...she is gone sxb....I don't think women understand this...but for us guys it means a lot to us...this is one of the times when men show their manhood....[/quote]

^^^

she can put fake blood on the bedsheets. then you will feel like a man.[/quote]

War you could feel the hymen popping ....plus they spit ...like diliq...

[FAH1223]

[quote="Gedo_Boy"]Gamadid,



for me the problem would be the lie.....because if she tells me in discreet confidence: "No I am not a virgin, there was this boy when I was 19 and ......" that is something......nobody is perfect and things happen but the fact that she had the integrity to be honest about it and tell me straightforward then I might still marry her b/c I know nobody is perfect..........not even GB 8)

But if she lies, you don't know what she is lying about? Was she a stripper? Did she have mass orgies? Did she do a film? Was she the neighborhood love? That's what is too scary to fathom.

And if she lies to you about that, then when will she decide to be honest and decide to lie.

You just don't know what you are getting.


Before I married her, I would ask very honestly and tell her that what she says is between me & her and I would never ever tell anybody either way. But I just gotta know [/quote]

exactly

[revolter]

[quote="QansaGabeyle"]Lol@white sheet. How about you find out before you actually get married to her. That would save you a lot of money, time and prevent you from having regrets.[/quote]

true...u can definetly take her to the hospital and see whether her hymen has been discharged or not but marriage is based on trust....so i would not risk the marriage....on the other hand if she wastes my money n i find out that night she lied...i would send her home the same night and it will be a big embracement to her n her family...for me fok da money...as long as i settle the score...n let her be labeled as a wh0re...