Islam and Sexuality

[Somali_4Life]

I want a room to be opened for members 18+,so we can discuss about the sexual side of humanity: what is allowed and what is not allowed for husband & wife.

[biko]

Oral sex = Haram!

[Somali_4Life]

Biko,vote damned.

[Shirib]

[quote="biko"]Oral sex = Haram![/quote]

Thats not true

[Koronto91]

[quote="biko"]Oral sex = Haram![/quote]

Evidence? Anything that goes on between a husband & wife is permitted, with the exception of anal sex.

[Somali_4Life]

This is not disccussion topic: its a request for the mods to open a subforum for islam & sexuality.
Please vote,share us your ideas.

[Shirib]

Allah Almighty says in Holy Quran chapter number 2 Al-Baqarah, verse number 222 and 223:

-"They ask thee concerning womens courses. Say: They are a hurt and a pollution: So keep away from women in their courses, and do not approach them until they are clean. But when they have purified themselves, ye may approach them as ordained for you by Allah. For Allah loves those who turn to Him constantly; and He loves those who keep themselves pure and clean.
-Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will; but do some good act for your souls beforehand; and fear God. And know that ye are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give (these) good tidings to those who believe.".(Holy Quran 2:222 and 223)

Based on this, all acts that aim at satisfying and pleasing the spouses are allowable so long as two things are avoided, that is anal sex and having sex with a wife while she is still in her menstruation or post partum bleeding.

[biko]

you cannot be seriouse.

oral sex wa haaran sxb. privacy iyo privacy la'aanted it doesnt change the fact its haram.

go ask any culima.

[Shirib]

[quote="biko"]you cannot be seriouse.

oral sex wa haaran sxb. privacy iyo privacy la'aanted it doesnt change the fact its haram.

go ask any culima.[/quote]

I just brought evidence, u bring evidence to refute it sxb.

[Somali_4Life]

Dude,if the woman is a hooker than yes oralsex is haraam. If she is your woman,why would it be haraam?
From what i know it says that analsex is haraam.

[Koronto91]

Biko,

Shirib cited evidence that its permitted, the only thing the literature says is haram is anal sex.

[Shirib]

Eminent Muslim scholar Sheikh Yusuf Al-Qaradawi:
"The Qur'an emphasizes the spiritual objectives of marriage, making them the foundations of marital life. These objectives are realized in the peace of mind which comes through wholesome sexual experience with the spouse whom one loves, in the enlargement of the circle of love and affection between the two families united through marriage, and in the nurturing of affection and tenderness among the children under the loving care of their parents. These are the objectives mentioned by Allah in the verse that reads: "And among His signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell with them in tranquility, and He has put love and mercy between you. Indeed, in this are signs for those who reflect." (Ar-Rum: 21)
At the same time, the Qur'an does not neglect the sensual aspect and the physical relationship between husband and wife. It guides human beings to the best path, fulfilling the demands of the sexual urge while avoiding harmful or deviant practices."


Allah, Exalted and Glorified be He, says: "And who guard their modesty, save from their wives or the slaves, that I heir right hands possess, for then they are not blameworthy, but Who so craveth beyond that, such are transgressors." (Al-Mu'minun: 5-7)"

In the light of this, scholars maintain that the husband is allowed to enjoy his wife through any means of enjoyment except anal sex, for that is forbidden. Hence Oral Sex is allowed between husband and wife.

[Somali_4Life]

Aside from sodomy,everything is allowed. Everything. Dont make haraam what Allah swt made halaal for us!

[Voltage]

Biko, oral sex is Xalaal only before the "juices" start flowing. Once that starts, it is not allowed but oral sex is xalaal.

[Somali_4Life]

Biko if you dont do it because you say its haraam,i have to tell you this: You are missing something great LOL