Would you guys’ advice...

[surrender]

...a Somali Muslim girl to marry from back home

Please keep in mind the culture gap. Yes she’s Somali and all, but haven’t been to her home country for like 16years, plus is educated compare the person she’s about to marry in terms of schooling.

As for religion he’s more religious than her, yes he’s wadaad, but she isn’t bad too. Does pray, cover, out her family first and is quite respected in her circle of friends and family

(Your advice does matter, but don’t get too personal, thanks)

[Basra-]

Surrender...... Thats disgusting. Somali western lived girl marrying a reer miyi flight 13 man from somalia is a desperate act. Its shameful. Its like Nabeela going to Sudan to find love because she read an article that to be fat in sudan was considered 'beautiful' by men. To put u all upto speed.....Nabs ....is fat.


Anyway, i think a western lived Somali man going to somalia for a bride makes sense. ITs practical and logical. He wants a none westernised, submissive, booyeeso, and she wants ....a ticket to 'Yuruub'!


A somali westernised woman seeking a somali groom from somalia is shameful and illogical.She is willing to be a boyeeso for someone who is beneath her? Both financially and socially? Her intentions are clear: she is alone and wants man desperately--it doesnt matter if they have nothing in common. For a westernised somali woman to reach to a point of such desperacy, i mean for surrender to reach this point of patheticness--one has to succum to great pity for her. Lets all roll our eyes and pity and pray for her to find her....Bradmudug.

[shaamboo]

basra where did u find your taxi driver fl13 husband ?

[The_Emperior5]

...a Somali Muslim girl to marry from back home

Please keep in mind the culture gap. Yes she’s Somali and all, but haven’t been to her home country for like 16years, plus is educated compare the person she’s about to marry in terms of schooling.

As for religion he’s more religious than her, yes he’s wadaad, but she isn’t bad too. Does pray, cover, out her family first and is quite respected in her circle of friends and family

(Your advice does matter, but don’t get too personal, thanks)

why would you go back all the way to somalia to find a religouse husband i mean there are lots of abu baakistaanis in london europe oo fahmaya nolasha qurbaha think about it ka halka aad ka soo kaxaysatiid wa inu halkan la qabsado. that is if you want to live here if you wanne live back home no problem dee wa caadii . laakin if you think your going to live here . maxa ku kadeedaya oo nin halka jooga kugu rarraya i mean there are enouhg here.

[surrender]

Lol lots of judging coming out of your post BASRA, but thanks for that, though I don’t think anything is wrong with Somali girl to marry from back home, and I don’t think is act of desperation. However I must acknowledge there is a gap in terms of way of life and attitudes to society and that might be difficult for both.

[Sir-Luggoyo]

Basra

I think there are both truth, logic and wisdom in your comment. If Sir Luggoyo goes back hunting for a Xaliimo, it's clear to everyone what type of a Xaliimo I fancy, but if a Westernized Basra is seeking a Farah from back home (God forbid) , there will be some question/exclamation marks all over her. What do they have in common? Can they even communicate from the same wavelength? He will be talking ..........err boasting about how many Isbaaro he was manning, how many elderly women he robbed and raped and will proudly try to teach her the different types of arsenals that were at his disposal, or how to shoot from a range or a ridiculous angle

It's a no go zone

[Navy9]

...a Somali Muslim girl to marry from back home

Please keep in mind the culture gap. Yes she’s Somali and all, but haven’t been to her home country for like 16years, plus is educated compare the person she’s about to marry in terms of schooling.

As for religion he’s more religious than her, yes he’s wadaad, but she isn’t bad too. Does pray, cover, out her family first and is quite respected in her circle of friends and family

(Your advice does matter, but don’t get too personal, thanks)

It think it will be hard, she will be better off marrying someone who has been close to her situation.

[Lacageylacag]

That lady going for a religious man from back home will insha Allah not regret her decision. She seems serious with life.

All the women who had Basra's mentality 15/16 years are now single and their kids are in jail.
The "bacmadow u tuur" of the 90's are now bitterly regreting. But they are understandable because they were new to Europe/America and they were excited with the newly found "women power" that turned their families upside down.
What excuse does Basra have??
She is falling for the same trap that made somali mothers the biggest producers of criminals and gangs in UK.

[Lacageylacag]

Just go to any UK court and see "Bacda Madow u tuur" Somali women generation. Their pain and desperation as their children face ruthless judges. The husband and her were from same "culture" and situation.

A woman who thinks she has a cultural difference with a man from back home will frustrate any somali man and produce dysfunction kids.

[Basra-]

LOL@Sir Lug...lol Hilarious on your input about what a reer miyi Farah can offer. But a certain comment of yours caugh my attention.


"What do they have in common? Can they even communicate from the same wavelength?"


I wonder why is a westernised Somali Farah seeking a somali bride flight 13 not asked the same question? What will this modernised farah like Sir Lug have in common with his precious innocent clueless fadumo? Ooopps i am sorry, i meant Xalimmo.Or is that the point? That Sir lug or other westernised Farahs want a woman to be seen but not heard? Why is society not putting the pressure of 'will they have something in common' to the somali bride? I think- its because-- the marriage is assumed not to be an equal one from the beginning. She has a station to fulfill, and that station is breading and booyeesoniimo. A sad predictability and misfortunes for such souls.




Lacageylacag

I agree with you on one point.That to seek a religiously superior somali husband from somalia is Logical and better.If that is the case, i applaud surrender.But i fear that is not the case. We have a lot of religious somalis here in the west, in the mosques. But they are mostly married i admit, but you can find single ones. My opposition mainly is to protest that shameless desperacy that violates the sancitity of feminine charm and allure.Desperation is a disgusting vice, most especially to a female. But also, i have to account--who am i -or --who is society to stop in the happiness of a woman desperate for a husband? Who am I or Who are we to stop surrender from finding her Al shabab?


The point i disagree is that u blame the western lost somali kids on westernised somali woman like myself. I dont think so. Blame it on the invisble fathers, coupled with western culture shock.Single mothers were made single by a single fathers.

[shaamboo]

basra uusey answer my question

[sheekh-Farax-zero]

Basra

Good lucky with Toronto, London, Mn Taxi drivers, iam sure they are not better than flight13 farax's

[dawwa9]

Somalis from Somalia are backward foolish idiots, They pretend that they're clean from this so-called filthy Gaal world but they are just as bad if not worse. Many girls in Somalia are just big sluts that meet up guys in the dark and wear niqaab during daytime and pretend to be holy.

The worst thing they are incredibly stupid, or let's just say uneducated..

[surrender]

why would you go back all the way to somalia to find a religouse husband i mean there are lots of abu baakistaanis in london europe oo fahmaya nolasha qurbaha think about it ka halka aad ka soo kaxaysatiid wa inu halkan la qabsado. that is if you want to live here if you wanne live back home no problem dee wa caadii . laakin if you think your going to live here . maxa ku kadeedaya oo nin halka jooga kugu rarraya i mean there are enouhg here.

im not refering to myself Emprior, just random question. i did had offers from just marriege proposels. i did turn them down for the simple reason of understanding one another. but i do know and have seen somali girls that go back home to get arried and it wasnt all failures for all.

It think it will be hard, she will be better off marrying someone who has been close to her situation.

true say.

That lady going for a religious man from back home will insha Allah not regret her decision. She seems serious with life.

All the women who had Basra's mentality 15/16 years are now single and their kids are in jail.
The "bacmadow u tuur" of the 90's are now bitterly regreting. But they are understandable because they were new to Europe/America and they were excited with the newly found "women power" that turned their families upside down.
What excuse does Basra have??
She is falling for the same trap that made somali mothers the biggest producers of criminals and gangs in UK.

i dont know if this comment is for basra or the thead lol. but i guess your right in away

Just go to any UK court and see "Bacda Madow u tuur" Somali women generation. Their pain and desperation as their children face ruthless judges. The husband and her were from same "culture" and situation.

A woman who thinks she has a cultural difference with a man from back home will frustrate any somali man and produce dysfunction kids.

hmmm really? are the fact that these children are "dysfunctionall" and thugs the mothers fault? or is it her fault that the marriege have failed?

[surrender]

Somalis from Somalia are backward foolish idiots, They pretend that they're clean from this so-called filthy Gaal world but they are just as bad if not worse. Many girls in Somalia are just big sluts that meet up guys in the dark and wear niqaab during daytime and pretend to be holy.

The worst thing they are incredibly stupid, or let's just say uneducated..

easy matey!!! not all somalis from somalia are backwarded foolish idiots! many of those somais you bad mouthing are our familes, man of them are wadados. many of them are hard working mothers, fathers! and are well educated, well mannared individuals!