Question for the fellas.

[baradho]

Salam Calaykum!

A close friend of mine does not know how to go about an issue, hopefully some of u guys might be helpful.
My friend is interested in a guy she hardly knows anything about. She has asked around but all she knows is that he really is a decent guy. She really really likes him and the problem is she never sees the dude around.
Also she is not the type to go to any parties or mixed weddings, so the chance of spotting him is like zero
She does not personally know his friends or where he hangs out so it complicates things further.

Thing is, she's considering to add him on facebook, but she's a bit reluctant bcos she does not want to look bad or desperate. How would u guys feel if a girl adds u on facebook u dont know? She might add him and wait hoping he'll make a move maybe.
She is decent, beautiul, comes from a good family and guards her reputation to the max so she's worried if it's worth it.
Even if he ask around he'll come 2 find out that she's a respectable girl.

Any advice?

[baradho]

??

[Barwaaqoiyobashbash]

If hes a god fearing nigga with a good akhlaaq,then yes.

[Executive]

Just go for it, and be up front with the guy.

[FAH1223]

so facebook is your only way to talk to him?

this shid happened to me in the spring, some girl hits me up that i've never seen before and starts talking about meeting up.. nigga please

[AgentOfChaos]

My advice is that the girl should do nothing at all, and assume that the guy will magically know how the girl feels about him and ask her out.

[Tuushi]

Oh the dilemmas of the world.

I heard dudes dont like when chicks approach them.

[AgentOfChaos]

Oh the dilemmas of the world.

I heard dudes dont like when chicks approach them.

Flawless sarcasm.

[Tuushi]

Oh the dilemmas of the world.

I heard dudes dont like when chicks approach them.

Flawless sarcasm.

Any truth to that claim?

[baradho]

If hes a god fearing nigga with a good akhlaaq,then yes.

She 's worried it might backfire on her.

[baradho]

Just go for it, and be up front with the guy.

That's the thing, assuming you are a guy u wouldn't have any problems with a girl approaching u, especially on facebook?

[AgentOfChaos]

Oh the dilemmas of the world.

I heard dudes dont like when chicks approach them.

Flawless sarcasm.

Any truth to that claim?

Some are primitive, and like the hunt I mean take the first initiative, while others are more modern, and are comfortable with their manhood enough to not care who asked who first out. So it depends on the guy I guess.

[Jam Street]

Tuushi

To answer your question, me personally, if Penelope Cruz, of all women, shows interest in me and starts following me, i will start to not rate her as highly as if I thought getting her is a real challenge for me.

What I am saying here is I like to hunt rather than being hunted.

[AgentOfChaos]

I rest my case.

[Executive]

Just go for it, and be up front with the guy.

That's the thing, assuming you are a guy u wouldn't have any problems with a girl approaching u, especially on facebook?

No, I wouldn't wallahi. As long as she acts normal, and is honest. She has to put all her cards on the table and explain the scenario. Not just say I want to get to know you or something lame like that, thats when I dislike being approached by a girl, she simply has to explain why she added him.

Its either this, or she will never have a chance, so my advise to your friend is that she should try her luck.