How to approach your parents

[Ladyyonelove]

When you are ready to introduce them to the guy you want to marry?
What is the best way, and who should be introduced to him first - hooyo or daddy? Or is it better to introduce him to them both at the same time?
Can anyone whom have introduced their parents to the man or female they want to marry share some pointers? Shuukran

[salool]

Intaad nin ka fakraysid aakhiradada ka fakar bil ramadan ba lagu jira ee ka faaideyso.

[FAH1223]

It's Ramadan

[DayaxJeclee]

maxaa dhacay soonka ila tali lama oran karo?

[daiman]

adiga how long baan ka fakareysaa this introduction? markaan joingareyey the forum back in janaury you were talking the same stuff. move on walalo.

btw you do not introduce them. just give him their number and it's his job to approach them. miyaad waalantey huuno.
a friend of mine married a non-somali guy, she gave him her parent's contact number. he found a somali speaker and paid the sooryo

[afisoone]

When you are ready to introduce them to the guy you want to marry?
What is the best way, and who should be introduced to him first - hooyo or daddy? Or is it better to introduce him to them both at the same time?
Can anyone whom have introduced their parents to the man or female they want to marry share some pointers? Shuukran

That is the job of the man you want to marry. That is not your job. When he has confident on you. He will come to inform them about that.. Otherwise if he is shy guy, let him use his elders or some other people. It is not your job to worry about that... Remember your parents are Somalis. Only when he is ready to marry you, then that is the time he will introduce himself to them.. During your friendships, never inform your parent about that.
That is my advice..

[Samatr]

It's Ramadan

that gif makes me laugh everytime

[hipsterrunoff]

It's Ramadan

No shame in her game.

[Ladyyonelove]

Okay soo what if it is ramadan? Because I want to know a proper way to introduce someone to my parents and keeping it xalaal makes it haram? Wallahi you people are ridicolous anywho forget I even asked .

[kambuli]

ladyonelove,

Maasha Allaah sis Ramadaan or no Ramadaan it is a good thing to get married. Nothing is wrong with doing or thinking of Xalaal marriage..Go for it and tell your mother first because you need to consult with her. Then your mom will let you know the proper time to introduce him to the family. I am sure you are by now aware of what kind of a man is acceptable in your family.

Go girl

[AhlulbaytSoldier]

U sure your parents will accept this dude?
What if he is somali bantu..

[TheblueNwhite]

U sure your parents will accept this dude?
What if he is somali bantu..

If he's bantu then it's forget about it. Some Somali parents would rather have their daughter marry a white or african american christian or than a muslim Somali bantu. ignorance is bliss.

To the OP, let the man worry about them details.

[AbdiWahab252]

Lady,

Seriously, can't you keep a secret

[Ladyyonelove]

thank you to those who are actually contributing to this thread

Yes oh boy is going to be accepted, no qabiil bullshit, yes I know he is suppose to go to the parent but first mustn't there be some sort of telling your mother of someone before he approachs her? or is it suppose to be a complete surprise?

Wallahi i am serious about this and honestly I dont need joke about it being ramadan as long as you put allahey first and you are not doing haraam. Plus isn't it said its better to ask something stupid to gain knowledge then to keep quiet?

[Samatr]

thank you to those who are actually contributing to this thread

Yes oh boy is going to be accepted, no qabiil bullshit, yes I know he is suppose to go to the parent but first mustn't there be some sort of telling your mother of someone before he approachs her? or is it suppose to be a complete surprise?

Wallahi i am serious about this and honestly I dont need joke about it being ramadan as long as you put allahey first and you are not doing haraam. Plus isn't it said its better to ask something stupid to gain knowledge then to keep quiet?

get pregnant, guarantee they will make sure your marriage goes smooth.
do it after Ramadan though, you don't want to give your old man a heart attack.