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Somali Girls Marrying Reverts

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This thread is created to discuss Somali girls who're marrying outside of the Somali community.

Keep it civil and please discuss it in a polite manner.

Here is a Somali guy complaining about a Somali girl leaving him for an English revert.
Why Do Somali Women like White Muslim Reverts so Much? Feb 11, 2015 ENGLISH NEWS 1 Why Do Somali Women like White Muslim Reverts so Much? I’m a 27 year old Somali man, and this is really starting to annoy me. I always hear about Somali women marrying reverts…especially here in the UK. I don’t understand why Somali girls like reverts so much. Why do reverts always go to the Somali Mosques to find a wife.

Is it because they think the Pakistani or Arab mosques won’t accept them, but the Somali one will?? One time my parents and the parents of my distant cousin who is half Somali half Ethiopian wanted to set us up together and that hopefully it would lead to a marriage. I met her a few weeks later as she lives in a different city from me, and I thought she was extremely beautiful.

I truly thought she was one of the most beautiful girls I ever saw, and so of course I was interested in her even more. I thought she was interested in me as well, but days later her parents called me and told me she thinks I’m a good man, but that she doesn’t want to get married at the moment, she’s not “ready”.

I was really sad because I think I’m a good looking guy, tall, handsome, educated, and with a good job…so I was extremely disappointed because I was very attracted to her and her personality.

After a while, I finally got over her…but only MONTHS later, I find out she’s engaged to some English revert and I got really angry. Now they’re married, and I just feel so jealous of him and feel disgusted when I see them together. I know it’s wrong to feel this way, but I was so shocked to find out only months later she was engaged…..what does he have, that I don’t have? Only difference is his white skin? How pathetic.

Osman Mohamed

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p.s. Please remember that the reverts are fellow Muslims--provided you're a Muslim and feel like they're your brothers in faith!
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Re: Somali Girls Marrying Reverts

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Here is one revert, who has been married to a Somali girl, sharing his experience.



i think at this point, being a revert, i would prefer a revert. i was married to a nice Somalian sister, but she had many Somali customs verses Islamic customs. over the course of a few years, she realized and made a lot of changes.

i know some other Somali sisters, and while they mean well, they try to get you to adopt Somali customs instead of Islamic ones.

i speak from experience as well, that the Somali men can hold quite a few prejudices as well. the Imam of my wife's tribe told her that "they" thought that maybe i was a spy instead of a genuine revert. actually, because of my study of religion, i was quite popular and hold many discussions with Imams and Daiyees who travel the world. yet when the sister and i wanted to get married, "they" tried to discourage her because "Americans" are evil. "they told her that she'd be abused or killed!

people that are born Muslim tend to think that they "know" more than you, even those that don't study. a revert has the advantage that we can easily avoid all the baggage that isn't Islam.

so, with all that in mind, i think it would be better to find a revert and let her learn at her own pace.

then again, maybe i can find a nice Jewish girl!!!

ma salaama


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LaariBusyMan wrote:This thread is created to discuss Somali girls who're marrying outside of the Somali community.

Keep it civil and please discuss it in a polite manner.

Here is a Somali guy complaining about a Somali girl leaving him for an English revert.
Why Do Somali Women like White Muslim Reverts so Much? Feb 11, 2015 ENGLISH NEWS 1 Why Do Somali Women like White Muslim Reverts so Much? I’m a 27 year old Somali man, and this is really starting to annoy me. I always hear about Somali women marrying reverts…especially here in the UK. I don’t understand why Somali girls like reverts so much. Why do reverts always go to the Somali Mosques to find a wife.

Is it because they think the Pakistani or Arab mosques won’t accept them, but the Somali one will?? One time my parents and the parents of my distant cousin who is half Somali half Ethiopian wanted to set us up together and that hopefully it would lead to a marriage. I met her a few weeks later as she lives in a different city from me, and I thought she was extremely beautiful.

I truly thought she was one of the most beautiful girls I ever saw, and so of course I was interested in her even more. I thought she was interested in me as well, but days later her parents called me and told me she thinks I’m a good man, but that she doesn’t want to get married at the moment, she’s not “ready”.

I was really sad because I think I’m a good looking guy, tall, handsome, educated, and with a good job…so I was extremely disappointed because I was very attracted to her and her personality.

After a while, I finally got over her…but only MONTHS later, I find out she’s engaged to some English revert and I got really angry. Now they’re married, and I just feel so jealous of him and feel disgusted when I see them together. I know it’s wrong to feel this way, but I was so shocked to find out only months later she was engaged…..what does he have, that I don’t have? Only difference is his white skin? How pathetic.

Osman Mohamed

...Copyright (C) http://harowo.com . Read more at http://harowo.com/archives/33247 .
p.s. Please remember that the reverts are fellow Muslims--provided you're a Muslim and feel like they're your brothers in faith!
Too much calacal from this dude, it was not written down for him to marry that girl, somali women are not the possession of Somali men. people should have the freedom to choose, but Somali women need to make sure that they are marrying for the right reasons. don't weaver on standards, don't say I want a educated, wealthy Somali man with a bmw and then lower your standards and marry ajnabi on a bicycle.
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a somali niqaabi sister at the cash point of llyds tsb bank on covernty rd birmingham, something happend and the machine didnt return the card, her husband who happend to be jamaican starts shouting at her then beating her in the middle of covernty road, she starts screaming and shouting ooh please ikaa qabtaa...ikaa qabtaa...some people tried to stop it but the man turned round and siad she's my wife you have no business here..Which was true no matter how humiliating and painfull it was...

Theres one dude who goes to the salafi masjid or the sp masjid...he's got a big tatto of a naked woman on his back, a big cross on his arm and wears a very short khamiis which shows all his tattos on his leg and the khamiis is short sleeved to show his tatoo on his arms, wears the khamiis so back so it shows the naked woman...he sells ataars and chats to any woman who walks past, still got the street in him although he embrassed Islam, last year he married a somali sister and the mehr was A BUKHARII BOOK, alright, then 2 weeks ago he got married to another somali girl, this time the mehr was "an" apple,, the brothers who were there at the mehr said the guy couldnt wait to get out of there, ther was no grace or sharaaf about the whole thing,,a week before another mehr took place where the whole thing had a good feel to it,but this one felt like no want wanted to there,it was like an extra thing to come and ask for the girls hand and do it the propa way...

But wait for it

a while ago abu khdija came to a somali sister who was a single mother, he told her he had a revert brother for her who was a good brother, worked hard, studied hard and was part of the rightous salafi masjid, the sister was relectant and she didnt want to rush into this as she was going bk to somalia for first time, she was brought up here after the war and she never seen the country and she was all excited of going back to her mother land.

But abu khadija started applying his wicked tricks, first sending out "salafi" sisters to put presure on her, then whisprings among the women that she was racist, and then came the best one she was starting to be off the "manhaj". The sister didnt have no choice but to accept.

Now the least thing you would think for a group of people, who operate a marriage Bureau, is to check the sort of people they introducing to the sisters. Their backgrounds, wether they have a history of violence, drugs, abuse and the rest of it.

the sister says she was happy with her man, he would take them out and be nice and kind to them and do what anormal husband would do.

now she started to get worried when her little son become quite and scared to be touched, then one day she walked in to his bedroom and her worst nighmore was in front of her.. i cant repeat but it was horrible, a grown man with a child..he ran off she called the police, when she was interviewed she didnt even know his name, he was introduced to her as abu-abdullah, and thats how she become to know him.

she was asked if she knew of his history and she told the police of how she become his wife. abu khadija was arrested and first he denied all knowledge of it, then the forms was brought up and he said ooh he never checked becuz of the good characters of the brother.

Then he turned on the sister saying it was her fault she should have seen the signs, and if she was a good sister this wouldnt of happend to her and basicly he was telling others to distance themselfs and the masjid from her, she was damaged goods...

The police quized him further but he got away again. but better now he takes the money of the police and works for them...i didnt want to say anything on the main forum coz it makes me sick...i left out few details coz they not good for the eyes..

Now the funny one

this one been doing the circules for a while and the somali sister whos been involved had to leave town and live somewhere else some say she left the country and gone to canada for the shame she felt, her mixd race husband been married to his first wife for only 7 months before the somali one agreed to marry him,his first wife who was also a somali didnt like the fact that any woman would agree to marry a man whos only been married for 7 months or so...but they both didnt see the shock..one night he invited the second to watch a programm at the house of the first, leaves the room comes bk in his box of shorts and starts telling them both how he always wanted to have both of his wifes at the same time..and how he stayed out of haraam and got married and now they owe him his loyalty...he kept talking and talking, till he convinced them both...now the first wife felt so ashamed she went and told the woman imaam at another masjid who told her not to go back to him and stay away from the salafi masjid...

when he found out he kicked off big time and went round to her familys house and a fight broke out..mind you the family didnt know till that point what happend...anyway no one knows how the news got out...the other somali girl refused to leave him...in the "brothers" circules he become a something of a mythical figure..somali's who go to the salafi masjid are among the most defetist,the most cowardest, who dare not speak out of term just incase they get kicked out of the manhaaj...they knew what was taken place yet they kept theyr eyes down when the jamaican brothers walked pass..They pretended this thing that was happning wasnt hapning, and if they stay quite on this "fitna" then somehow it would go awy...little did they know that the nxt victims would come from their families...


theres alot more shocking stories like these every other day u hear of shameful story...these new salafiya guys are acting on the manhaaj you either with us or againts us if you are with us marry one of us...

http://www.siratemustaqeem.com/phpBB/vi ... 3&start=10
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barca252 wrote:
LaariBusyMan wrote:This thread is created to discuss Somali girls who're marrying outside of the Somali community.

Keep it civil and please discuss it in a polite manner.

Here is a Somali guy complaining about a Somali girl leaving him for an English revert.
Why Do Somali Women like White Muslim Reverts so Much? Feb 11, 2015 ENGLISH NEWS 1 Why Do Somali Women like White Muslim Reverts so Much? I’m a 27 year old Somali man, and this is really starting to annoy me. I always hear about Somali women marrying reverts…especially here in the UK. I don’t understand why Somali girls like reverts so much. Why do reverts always go to the Somali Mosques to find a wife.

Is it because they think the Pakistani or Arab mosques won’t accept them, but the Somali one will?? One time my parents and the parents of my distant cousin who is half Somali half Ethiopian wanted to set us up together and that hopefully it would lead to a marriage. I met her a few weeks later as she lives in a different city from me, and I thought she was extremely beautiful.

I truly thought she was one of the most beautiful girls I ever saw, and so of course I was interested in her even more. I thought she was interested in me as well, but days later her parents called me and told me she thinks I’m a good man, but that she doesn’t want to get married at the moment, she’s not “ready”.

I was really sad because I think I’m a good looking guy, tall, handsome, educated, and with a good job…so I was extremely disappointed because I was very attracted to her and her personality.

After a while, I finally got over her…but only MONTHS later, I find out she’s engaged to some English revert and I got really angry. Now they’re married, and I just feel so jealous of him and feel disgusted when I see them together. I know it’s wrong to feel this way, but I was so shocked to find out only months later she was engaged…..what does he have, that I don’t have? Only difference is his white skin? How pathetic.

Osman Mohamed

...Copyright (C) http://harowo.com . Read more at http://harowo.com/archives/33247 .
p.s. Please remember that the reverts are fellow Muslims--provided you're a Muslim and feel like they're your brothers in faith!
Too much calacal from this dude, it was not written down for him to marry that girl, somali women are not the possession of Somali men. people should have the freedom to choose, but Somali women need to make sure that they are marrying for the right reasons. don't weaver on standards, don't say I want a educated, wealthy Somali man with a bmw and then lower your standards and marry ajnabi on a bicycle.
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Yeah, too much calaacal from that guy. It sounds like a heart broken guy who couldn't move on :down:
somali women are not the possession of Somali men. people should have the freedom to choose, but Somali women need to make sure that they are marrying for the right reasons. don't weaver on standards, don't say I want a educated, wealthy Somali man with a bmw and then lower your standards and marry ajnabi on a bicycle.
Yeah they're not the possession of Somali men, but then when they bring shame - especially one that is known publicly - it affects all of us (Somali men included).
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This has been discussed here before. I had a long thread about it.

I don't mind interracial marriages if they are done for the right reasons.

Wallahi iyo billaahi as Allah is my witness, just today I heard of yet another heartbreaking story of a sister that I know, who got played by her ajnabi husband. She is religious, wears niqab and is very young. I won't go into details (really messed up story) but she specifically said that she regrets not marrying one of the somali suitors that came and asked for her. Instead she chose some dorky ajnabi (looks like a bum) who did her dirty.

I know far too many women who got played not to take note. I tell all my female relatives to stick to Somalis no matter what qabiil they're from. At least you know what you're getting.
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Gabre wrote:Shaqolaaan.com
General Gabre, hook me up with some xabashi broads sxb :lol:
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I know many young girls who married ajnabi and it didn't work out, problem is no farax wants to give them a second chance. one thing I noticed, Somali girls are sought after. I see ajnabi men always going extra mile to court one while we faraxs just sit back and expect a wide eyed haliimo from our tol to approach us lol.
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Not AGAIN :snoop:
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Raganimo wrote:
Gabre wrote:Shaqolaaan.com
General Gabre, hook me up with some xabashi broads sxb :lol:
:pac: gabre is intelligent he gets the pick of Somali women in Mogadishu and where ever else he controls
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his pistol is called 'don't play me'
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Advo wrote:I know many young girls who married ajnabi and it didn't work out, problem is no farax wants to give them a second chance. one thing I noticed, Somali girls are sought after. I see ajnabi men always going extra mile to court one while we faraxs just sit back and expect a wide eyed haliimo from our tol to approach us lol.
I used to talk to this gorgeous woman back in the day. Dropped her as soon as I found out she had two Arab kids..

Dafuq I look like raising dhegacas kids :mindblown:
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Somali women are dahab

Bilaa edeb baa tihiin :pacspit:
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Gabre wrote:Somali women are dahab

Bilaa edeb baa tihiin :pacspit:
General Gabre, nobody disputes that. I haven't bashed our women.
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