Love is doing the dishes

[ms.naliaa]

Has any of you done that love language assessment???

p.s. Id love any man who
1. Doesnt leave his shoes by the door
2. washes the dishes or at least soak them
3. Puts the toilet seat back down

[SelfD]

Whoever loves the least...

[BlackVelvet]

@Jasmine
I don't know. I am a loner and I don't like to be around people for too long. Maybe by disappearing every now and then, since absence makes the heart grow fonder.

I like how you did not mention anything about the conditioning, while promoting the weak writer's bullshit as a cardinal truth. I see your agenda, man hater. How insulting. You should find someone who isn't a complete retard and ask them for their opinion. It is clear that the author is retarded.

@Lillaahiya
Domesticate me? I don't follow. Do elaborate.

so you will show your wife that you love her by going away, very interesting theory, might hold some water.

I can imagine when your family finally get you into a forced marriage. Most days you'd be huddled in the furthest corner from wherever she is, watching her with curiosity and distrust

not snet, in my second year university, i did internship in the family courts, and since had part time job there. that really not turn me off, scared hell out of me.

blayo ha goursato. my cats do not sue me if i forgot to feed them or forgot to clean their litter box or just for being mean to them!

You'd also probably stay in the corner

[BlackVelvet]

Has any of you done that love language assessment???

p.s. Id love any man who
1. Doesnt leave his shoes by the door
2. washes the dishes or at least soak them
3. Puts the toilet seat back down

You mean the action, physical, presents etc test?

[Insomniac]

Fair analysis. That just might happen.

[S-D-M]

Shutting your pie hole, while I watch the game is a true love

[Murax]

GOSH I SAW THIS ON FACEBOOK ON MY SISTERS PAGE, AND I KNEW JASMINE WOULD MAKE A THREAD ABOUT IT AND HIGHLIGHT THE DISHES PART

[Tuushi]

The love illusion continues. Garabkiin ilaahay ha galo.

[BlackVelvet]

Tuushi it as a necessarily prelude to causing damage - a necessary evil sis



Murax that is the part that stands out

[Alphanumeric]

@Inasamaale
I wish I didn't read it.

Oh boy, where do I begin? So this idiot married a smarter woman, whether he loved her, loves her now, etc, is all debatable. What is certain is that, this smart woman has psychologically conditioned him. Like a monkey that gets an electric shock when he does bad or the lab rat that presses a button to receive food, she reinforced a particular behaviour by rewarding it with a behaviour that the subject thinks is love and discouraging whatever she perceives as a bad behaviour by punishing the subject, in this instance, she was not reciprocating his advances and ignoring him. Don't get me wrong, she is not a monster. This happens everywhere and every time around us. Mothers do it to their kids, scientists do it to their lab rats, etc. In fact, I have nothing against her and I don't condemn such actions as I believe might makes right. But for the idiot to come out and write to home about his ridiculous bullying that he conflates with love and calling for other people to actively allow themselves to be treated like lab rats is laughable, if not down right offensive. He should be ashamed of himself.

Trust BV to love these kinds of articles.

^

[Murax]

Jasmine,

I thought love was the man paying the bills?

[BlackVelvet]

Murax I think you actually see it like that. For a woman love is being provided for and for a man love is having warm food and a clean house when he gets home. Nothing wrong with that, that is your definition. Plenty of people who see it like that.

[Murax]

Murax I think you actually see it like that. For a woman love is being provided for and for a man love is having warm food and a clean house when he gets home. Nothing wrong with that, that is your definition. Plenty of people who see it like that.

You are making me out to be some sort of a animal or lower moral standard fella for believing that though with the way You're coming off


Anyway ofcourse a guy should occassionally help out, When His wife is tired, sick or just needs a break, however how does doing that every single day help> Honestly speaking I think My Wife would like Jewlery, shopping or Spa treatments more than me cleaning the dishes as would most women don't You agree?

[FarhanYare]

Then I realize who I'm tryna domesticate. Iga fuq.

If I ever met you, I would make you my raincoat.

[BlackVelvet]

Murax I think you actually see it like that. For a woman love is being provided for and for a man love is having warm food and a clean house when he gets home. Nothing wrong with that, that is your definition. Plenty of people who see it like that.

You are making me out to be some sort of a animal or lower moral standard fella for believing that though with the way You're coming off


Anyway ofcourse a guy should occassionally help out, When His wife is tired, sick or just needs a break, however how does doing that every single day help> Honestly speaking I think My Wife would like Jewlery, shopping or Spa treatments more than me cleaning the dishes as would most women don't You agree?

I am not making you out to be anything lol. I said there's nothing wrong with it. I told you years ago that you are a traditional guy and I stick by it.

There are girls who would love the spa treatments etc but no being female does not mean that all would automatically fall in love with you for "spoiling then with luxury"