When polygamy goes right

[YummyMummy]

Dude is a businessman & charity worker. 3 wives & children married & catered for, all know each other and happily married. He's appearing on a Channel 4 (UK) documentary. How can he be public about this and face jail time for breaking the law? And such diversity in his wives, dude's doing well for himself (that's the xalaalest way I can say it)



All Faaraxs (except Dangirl ) comment on something other than his colour please

Article: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article ... wives.html

[1nemansquad]

all the men in my family have multiple wives, its doable

[YummyMummy]

^ It's such a struggle on your eemaan & nafs though. Never say never, and it is part of the diin, but I can't stomach it myself. How do they divide responsibilities or work together between themselves?

[SultanOrder]

Very conservative old women who want to settle down. I think at that age, whether they are in polygamous or single marriage, they just don't want bullshit.

What I don't get is the purpose of more women other than more kids. It's too much of a hassle, and if I gave a women who will give me kids why on earth would I want more?

[Casanova25]

I don't know why faraaxs take to many wives, and for those who dosen't have many wives, they usually envy those with 3-4 wives but looking at it from an honest view its tough enough to have one wife.

You can be fit, young and sporty but still you won't make them all happy and its to much physical work and the guy on the picture looks strong but strength alone won't do you shit, but good Cardio can help.

some women are just nympho by nature

[Amira143]

He makes it look so easy. Well done to him for making it work them

[Basra-]

Yuck! I mean---observing that photo, I cant help but muster ALL the puke, and farting vomit I can afford! Akhaas! So irresponsible. I mean, Islamic -ally---I agree, but I am still conflicted! But, logically, and financially,slash fiscally speaking--it is irresponsible. Can he really take care of these women, and their ugly kids?(particularly, the youngest wife who is taller than him? One imagines, awkwardness in the bedroom) Look at him, so madoow badaan, saan weyne, and with that khamis ensemble, paired with that size small thug shoes, untied mind you--the incongruity is amass. Yes, he seems very go lucky happy according to the photo, and yes, according to the size his small shoes he has a small Gu.s, in contrast with his adoon looks--but can he really be a responsible member of the community? Especially--when a similar looking, government assisting buildings are painting the background of this grotesque photo! Is he the father or is the government welfare ? Is raising 20 ugly kids in a ghetto public assistant neighborhood appropriate???

[KingWaslawi]

That's what I want too, but only in a good way

Tani waa iska adduunyo oo waa laga tagayaa, markaa sida quraankuba sheegay waa inaad caddaalad iyo sinnaan ku dhaqdaa xaasaskaaga.

[Xildiiid]

Filthy terrorist..

Yummy, this is a Somali forum, orodoo polygami iyo diimahaad faafineysid, muslim forums la tag. Riwaayad dadka ha ugu sheekeyne..

[PrinceDaadi]

Allah asi na suubsaday na yaqaana, marki uu guurka amrayay na waxaa uu ka bilaabay guursada labo, sedax ama afar. Markaas Kadib ayuu dhahay "hadii".

[YummyMummy]

Basra : yes, he is madow, no he's not "ghetto public estate" - businessman and each wife has her own home with the kids. And when did you learn the word "fiscally"? The Bronte sisters did not pen it

Amira & Waslaawi: guy spends 3 days with each of his wives and rotates. Wonder if he makes more leeway if say, the kids or the wife is ill? But he and they have at least tried one of the ultimate fitna/tests in Islam, and so far it's going well for them

Xildiid

Daadi: "haddii" is the most important word there though, it outlines the conditions upon which "laba, saddex, affar" can be married.

[Basra-]

Yummy

So the man is NOT Somali?

[YummyMummy]

^ Read the damn article woman All those fat ye olde books we both read, halkay kaa mareen?

[STARKAST]

Looks like even 41 yr old Somali women have a inferiority complex.......Only a confused and lost woman would become a 2nd, 3rd wife in this country seriously.

[Basra-]

^ Read the damn article woman All those fat ye olde books we both read, halkay kaa mareen?

Yummy

I have no appetite for mediocre written articles ! For me to read the whole damn thing, I need to be grabbed with stylistic writings!